‘Good genes,’ not surgery,helped Balot win Miss International Queen
The three beauty queens visit
to say thanks to Pattaya Mail.
Elfi Seitz
It wasn’t cosmetic surgery that gave Kevin Balot the looks he needed
to win the Miss International Queen transgender beauty pageant. They secret,
the 21-year-old Filipino said, was “good genes.”
“I am lucky and have good genes that make me look like a girl: a small nose,
small hands and feet and also my Adam’s apple is not well developed,” he
said in an interview with the Pattaya Mail. “Maybe it’s because I started
taking female hormones when I was 17. I developed breasts, which are not as
big as artificial ones, but look very female indeed.”
Balot and runners-up Simoes from Brazil and Thailand’s Panvilas Mongkol
called on Pattaya Mail Publishing Co. Nov. 9 to thank the management for
their sponsorship of the pageant. In interviews, all three beauty queens
said that the contest illustrates the problems transgenders have to overcome
and raises awareness amongst “normal” people about their struggles.
Of the three, only the Thai contestant, who also won the Miss Tiffany
Universe title and finished third in the international competition, has
undergone gender-altering surgery. Balot and Simoes remain male, at least in
anatomy, if not in name as well.
Balot said he has no plans to change “Kevin,” to a female
moniker.
“It’s the name my parents gave me and I believe that the name you receive at
birth is significant for the rest of your life,” he said. “I am very
spiritual and believe one shouldn’t make such a drastic change. I didn’t
undergo a sexual change as well so far and I will carefully think about it
before I make a decision.”
Balot, who even at close range appears very feminine, said he entered the
pageant “only for fun” and never believed he’d be the first Filipino to win
a Miss International Queen title.
“Now I am more than happy, especially because my father accepts his only son
as what I am,” he said. “When I called him after my victory he said he was
very proud of me and that I looked absolutely beautiful. That made me
happier than everything else.”
Third-place finisher Panvilas, who won the Miss Tiffany Universe title
earlier this year, said she was proud to make the final 10 at the
international pageant. She said she never expected to win, given that
Thailand took the title last year.
Panvilas described the preparation for the contest, choosing the meklha
dance for the talent competition and the Nang Visakha dress for national
costume. The main problem she said she faced was language.
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Bali Hai may call you
MC, Richard Silverberg opens the
meeting by explaining the significance of Remembrance Day, also called Armistice
Day and Poppy Day, and in the US called Veterans’ Day. Richard called for a
moment of silence, marking the anniversary of the end of the ‘Great War’ on
November the 11th, 1911.
Remember the song, “Bali Hai may call you, any night, any day
… In your heart you’ll hear it call you, come away, come away?”
PCEC members Pat Koester and Donna Westendorf answered the call to visit Bali
during Songkran last year, and they shared their experiences as guest speakers
at the Sunday, November 11 meeting of the Pattaya City Expats Club.
Pat started the presentation with a video of the Legong, a Balinese Classical
Dance performed by young girls in which every blink of the eye, every twitch of
a finger has a meaning. Pat said she and Donna decided to avoid the most crowded
part of the island where the top-end tourist beach hotels are located, and
headed instead for the area called Ubud, the cultural heart of Bali.
Chair Pat Koester & friend Donna
Westendorf had a trip to escape Songkran earlier this year, and in this week’s
presentation they told us of their adventures on the picturesque island of Bali.
On their first night in Bali, she and Donna and about 20
other tourists were taken by van through the dark countryside to see a
performance of Bali’s mesmerizing Kecak Fire Dance (commonly known as the
“monkey dance”), which features a “choir” of 80 shirtless men who sit in circles
around a tree of fire and slip into a trance as they sway and chant
“chak-a-chak-a-chak,” imitating a troupe of monkeys, while dancers re-enact the
Hindu epic Ramayana.
Donna described a visit to a typical Balinese family compound, a high walled
enclosure with a number of small, special purpose buildings. Family compounds
are joined together, so that entire sections of streets and roads are lined with
high walls punctuated by occasional gates. It is rare to catch a glimpse of the
interior of any compound. So Donna and Pat were delighted to learn of a compound
in a rural area that the family has opened for tourist visits. A family member
served as a guide and explained the various rooms (bale) within the compound.
One of the rooms is designed for ceremonial occasions, such as a Tooth Filing
ceremony that follows the rite of passage to adulthood. The upper canine teeth
are filed down to the same length as the front teeth - to symbolize eliminating
the individual’s “wild” nature with such characteristics as lust, greed, anger
and drunkenness. In the corner of each family compound is a temple with shrines
to various Hindu gods.
Bali’s mesmerizing Kecak dance,
or “monkey dance” is a must-see.
This family compound had a shop featuring a Balinese Coffee made by a very
unusual process. An animal similar to a mongoose thrives on the ripe coffee bean
cherries. While the bean is in the little guy’s stomach, it undergoes chemical
treatment and fermentation. The still intact beans found in the droppings are
collected from the forest floor, then cleaned, roasted and ground, just like any
other coffee. This exotic, bitter coffee is Kopi Luwak (aka cat-poo coffee) and
sells for about $15 per cup. (Donna and Pat decided to forgo the pleasure.)
Across the road from the family compound, an elderly man was making wood
carvings, one of the crafts for which Bali is most famous. Donna decided to
purchase one of his carvings, and suddenly the empty rural road was filled with
vendors with various hand-made crafts, who surrounded Donna in hopes that they
had found a gullible tourist. Although it was an amusing incident (especially
for Pat), both Donna and Pat agreed that the high pressure sales people that
they encountered throughout were the only unpleasant part of the trip.
Another highlight of the trip for Pat occurred one day while she was walking
down a back street in Ubud that was lined with a wall fronting family compounds.
Pat noticed a lot of people going in and out one of the gates. She asked what
was going on, and they said they were preparing for a birthday party. She asked
if she could go in and look around, and they said sure. So she was able to
photograph the elaborate preparations, as well as the family temple area.
Pat ended the presentation by sharing tips, including how to get reasonable
flight and room rates. A number of members had visited Bali, and during the
question period they joined in sharing tips for getting the most from a trip for
anyone who might hear Bali Hai calling to them in the future.
In commemoration of the Nov. 11 Veterans/Remembrance Day, MC Richard Silverberg
asked members to observe a moment of silence.
Richard updated everyone on upcoming events and called on Roy Albiston to
conduct the Open Forum. Questions were raised and answered regarding visas,
banking and other aspects of Expat living in Thailand, Pattaya, in particular.
Read more about the Club’s activities on their website at www.
pattayacityexpatsclub.com.
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Nova Platinum hosts the BCCT
Dr. Iain Corness (left) and Paul Strachan (right)
interview BCCT Executive Director Greg Watkins for PMTV.
Dr Iain Corness
Following the current trend, the British Chamber of Commerce Thailand (BCCT)
invited both the American Chamber (AmCham) and the Australian Chamber (AustCham)
to join with them for their November networking evening, held at the Nova
Platinum hotel. In addition, an invitation was extended to the Automotive Focus
Group (AFG) whose members certainly swelled the numbers at the event.
With the chairman of the BCCT Simon Landy having just returned from the UK, the
task of keeping everyone happy was left to Executive Director Greg Watkins,
which he did with his usual aplomb. The task of making sure the venue was
functioning correctly fell to the new Nova Platinum GM David Roberts, and
despite some anxious looks at the heavens with the threatened rain, it remained
fine and the area around the pool was well used, and the spread of nibbles more
than enough.
CES Sales Manager Patchararatch Tanasetpiwat and CES
Sales & Marketing Manager Manita Boontham add heaps of pulchritude to the event.
Kevin Fisher and Andy Hall (CEA and CES) were chatting to the ‘dog man’ Joe Cox,
running the Defense International Security Services, whilst the two vivacious
CES girls Jack and Manipa were interviewed on PMTV for the “Doc and Jock” show
by Dr. Iain and Paul Strachan.
Scott Finsten, the Harbor Master at Ocean Marina, is a regular these days, and
even brought a couple of customers, Paul Birgan and his wife, ship builders from
Queensland’s Gold Coast who have fled from Australia and now are comfortably
ensconced in the Eastern Seaboard of Thailand.
AFG members always enjoy themselves at these functions, and George Strampp, Mike
Diamente, Richard Jackson and Armin Walter were never without liquid
refreshments and an audience. Mike’s wife Rosanne Diamente was the only member
of her group Women With a Mission, but was her usual charming self. Another
charmer was Hanna from Harry & Sons, who was definitely not one of the “sons”!
Bangkok Hospital Pattaya was represented by Dr. Iain, Neil Maniquiz and Janya
Ratanaliam and the Holiday Inn’s Tea Tree spa manager Jeena was touting for
business with that bright smile as usual.
Joe Cox (left), Managing Director of Defence
International Security Services left his dogs at home when talking with Russell
Jay Darrell, Managing Director of Soundzgood Co., Ltd.
Despite the numbers being down, all attendees enjoyed the event, but undoubtedly
City Hall has to do something to alleviate the grid-locked traffic jams which
are now unfortunately regular features of Friday evenings. Shortening the cycles
at the traffic lights would help, as well as positioning policemen to ensure the
major intersections are not jammed up. In the meantime while all these ideas are
being implemented, raise your umbrellas as there is a flock of pigs flying
overhead.
It’s lots of fun when these three get together (L to
R) Dr. Iain Corness, Renita and Maurice D. Bromley.
Paul Birgan, Gold Coast Ships Ltd. networks with
Peter Banner, The Happy Auctioneer.
(L to R) Paul Fox, Sales & Marketing Manager
for Urbaan Real Estate; Scott Finsten, Harbour Master at Ocean Marina Yacht
Club; and David Lawrence, General Manager of Urbaan Real Estate.
Supaporn (Hannah) Nontanam, sales rep for Star
Residence discusses ways to make her sales pitch sound as good as possible with
Russell Jay Darrell, Managing Director of Soundzgood Co., Ltd.
Three jolly networkers (L to R) Greg Hoole, General
Manager/Director Precision Springs; George T. Strampp, AMS Managing Director;
and Ron Kosinski, Engineering Technology Advisor for Unity Powertrain Co., Ltd.
Rosanne Diamente from Women With a Mission and Simon
Birkett, CEO of La-iert Cryogenic Sanitisation Co., Ltd. make it a mission to
clean up the world.
Vicki Birgan and Chris Hagerman from Gold Coast
Ships Ltd. share a laugh or two.
(L to R) Nisaluck Thamaphat, Assistant Manager,
Sales, Amari Orchid Pattaya; Sirikorn Chingduang, Assistant Manager, Sales,
Amari Orchid Pattaya; David Roberts, General Manager, Nova Platinum Hotel;
Dueanpen Thongsombat, Assistant Director of Sales, Amari Orchid Pattaya;
Kamolphop Suksamarn, Assistant Manager, Sales, Nova Platinum Hotel; Pacharin
Machima, Assistant Sales Manager and Weeraya Sakolchai, Manager, Sales, Amari
Orchid Pattaya.
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