Family Money: Where shall we run to?
By Leslie
Wright,
Managing director of Westminster Portfolio Services (Thailand) Ltd.
Volatility, in the true sense of the word, returned to
major market equities in the second quarter of 2002. April, May and June
showed how share prices can rise, fall, rise and fall again. Just like the
proverbial yo-yo.
Could we be looking at a third consecutive year of
negative returns? The markets are steadfastly refusing to give a clear
signal as to what we should do with our portfolios, so it would seem that
the best policy would be to wait patiently for the equity markets to turn
around and catch the recovery.
So far this year, value stocks (those whose share price
divided by their earnings are less expensive than the average of their
index) have outperformed growth stocks (those that are more expensive than
the average on the same basis).
With a US economic recovery becoming more apparent by
the day, you would expect growth stocks to outperform, but they have not.
The cause is probably investor scepticism regarding earnings’ forecasts
- what we professionals call “negative sentiment”.
Weekly revelations about accounting malpractices
don’t help to boost investor confidence either.
Although many strategists believe the dollar may weaken
against the euro by the end of 2002, recent history shows that Sterling
tends to move more closely with the US dollar. Those who believe Eurozone
equities may decouple from, and outperform, their US counterparts in 2002
should remember that US productivity has remained higher than in most
European countries for the past 20 years, and there has been a close
correlation between the US and European stock performance over the same
period.
Investors are staying in the equity market almost by
default, with low yields on cash and expectations based on a decade of
outsized returns from equity investment. But the notion that “things
must improve” is too simplistic. Among investment fund managers - whose
jobs and income depend on getting it right more often than they get it
wrong - there are very mixed views on the outlook for a recovery in the
US.
One large instit ution’s investment director
believes the bear market in the US still has a long way to run, and
expects more pain to come. He cites the economic slowdowns of the 1980s
and the first half of the 1990s when good companies were operating in a
poor economic environment, compared with the bubble since 1999, when we
have seen bad companies with poor business models and high levels of debt
financing, in at best a neutral economic environment.
Indeed, recovery in the US may well be anaemic rather
than robust. Without a strong recovery in the next few months, many retail
investors who haven’t made money for nearly two-and-a-half years may
become disheartened and move back into cash, which will merely lock in
their losses and deepen the negative sentiment that may well already be
holding back the recovery. It’s almost a vicious cycle, and the TV
pundits are not helping: sweetness & light one day; doom & gloom
the next.
Nonetheless, many other institutional investment gurus
are positive on the outlook for the next six months. But the consensus is
mixed and neutral.
So, given that most fund managers are sitting on the
fence and refuse to attempt to time the market, what chance do we ordinary
investors have?
Equities are volatile, bond yields are unpromising and
the various hedge strategies have yet to become mainstream enough to
replace either. So we sniff around, looking for alternatives.
“Safe as bricks & mortar” was the cry of our
forefathers, and all of us who have owned houses have gone through the
turmoil of fluctuating property prices and the threat of negative equity.
But we are led to believe that such uncertainty, in the UK market at
least, is a thing of the past for canny property fund managers. This may
account for the explosion of property funds investing in the UK, for
example. And the message is spreading like wildfire, with new property
funds being launched almost weekly.
Most of these funds invest in London and the argument
goes that as London remains an important financial and business centre, so
people will continue to want to buy and rent there. Long-term government
policy has not encouraged enough building and so demand outstrips supply.
It’s that simple. As Mark Twain said, “Buy land. They’ve stopped
making it.” Well, perhaps.
Any new asset class is always worth considering insofar
as it provides diversification. But think of what we have: a bull-market
throughout an economic downturn, years of fantastic returns and a highly
enthusiastic investment industry.
It is interesting to note that from 1997 to 2000, the
number of TMT (technology, media & telecommunications) funds launched
has almost perfect correlation with performance, as does the performance
against net purchases. A classic recipe for a speculative bubble. And we
all know what the result has been for that sector since April 2000.
So one must ask, “If I enter the property market now,
am I cleverly catching the beginning of the next wave, or am I jumping in
at its peak?”
There is an old adage: “If ten people tell you that
you look ill, lie down.” In the investment industry, it’s reversed. If
ten people tell you the investment carrot looks too juicy to miss out on,
it’s probably poisoned. Patience and caution may be rewarding traits in
present market conditions.
Snap Shot: Wat a shot!
by Harry Flashman
Have you ever stopped to consider just why we take
photographs? The simple answer is because we want to record visually what
something was like. Sure, you can describe it with words, but as they say,
a picture is worth a thousand words.
Another reason to take a photograph is because the
subject is something “unique” in some way. That uniqueness can come
just from the fact that this is a subject that you have not seen before,
or the viewer of your photograph may not have seen before. And that is
what brings us to the subject of this week’s column. Have you ever
stopped to consider the unique nature of your local Wat?
As you are aware, if your eyes have been open for half
a day, Thailand has thousands of Wats. Unfortunately the sheer number of
them can blind you to the fact that they have a unique quality. Wats are
not common places “back home” and so a definitive “Wat” photograph
will have a wonderful impact.
So here is how to take that shot - only it isn’t one
shot. It is impossible to show a Wat with one snap. It requires a series.
One of the reasons for this is the fact that a Wat is a microcosm of Thai
society. People eat there, live there, learn there and go there after they
die. So really you are trying to show not only the grandeur of the
architecture, but the fact that the Wat has a life going on within its
boundaries.
Here is how Harry here would approach the subject. The
first is to go there the day before your shooting day to see how the sun
shines on the buildings. To get the textures and colours you need the sun
striking the walls at an angle. Full shade or full sun is not the way. You
will have to note what are the best times of day to record various
architectural details. Also be prepared to use a close up shot or two to
highlight some of the small details. By the way, always remember that a
Wat is a place of religious worship and significance, so do take your
shoes off and be respectful.
Now Wats are inhabited by monks, teachers, nuns,
novitiates, school children, street-side sellers and tourists. A very
mixed bag. Try to take shots to show just why these people are there in
the Wat and its compound. This is where a “long lens” (135 mm upwards)
can be a help. You can get the image you want without having to intrude
into the person’s personal space. However, remember that if there is any
doubt as to whether your subject would really want that photo taken - then
ask permission first. It is my experience that the vast majority of people
will happily respond positively to your request. Even when there is no
common language, a smile and a wave of the camera in their direction and
an “OK?” is generally all that is necessary.
Taking pictures inside a Wat is difficult. The light
levels are very low and there is the feeling that you are intruding in
someone else’s religious practices. Taking a flash photograph really is
an intrusion in my view. This is where the tripod is great. Set the camera
up on the tripod, compose the shot, set it on Time Exposure and quietly
get that shot of a lifetime. You will probably need around 10 - 20 seconds
at f5.6, but that is just a guide and you should experiment.
By now you should have taken almost one complete roll
of film on your local Wat. Verticals, horizontals, close-ups and wide
angle shots. Do not be afraid to shoot film. It is the only way to improve
and the only way to get great shots. Film is the cheapest thing in
photography, always remember that.
See you at your local Wat this weekend.
Modern Medicine: A sight
for Psoriasis!
by Dr Iain Corness, Consultant
A very unattractive skin condition exists called
Psoriasis (pronounced “Sawryasis”). You may not have seen many
sufferers from this condition, as the people with it tend to hide
themselves away, feeling so embarrassed by the dry scaly lesions on their
bodies. The most usual areas are the knees, elbows, scalp, the cleft
between the buttocks and around the “belly button”. Despite the fact
you may not have seen someone with it, 6% of Australians, for example,
have this problem. For those who have one parent with it, each child has a
25% chance of developing Psoriasis, and if both parents have it the risk
goes as high as 50%.
The effects of this disease have been studied by
psychologists as it comes under the “psycho-social” umbrella, and
young people under 35 years of age are particularly adversely affected.
Can you imagine not being able to go to the beach or a public swimming
pool because you would feel people were staring at you, or thinking that
you were “unclean”? This leads to difficulties in the workplace,
socializing and probably even more importantly, in sexual relationships.
Imagine a skin disease which has such an effect on your everyday life and
ability to enjoy it.
Unfortunately there is also a public concept that
“nothing can be done” about Psoriasis, again leaving the sufferer with
the idea that he or she cannot be helped, and they retreat even further
into their shells.
These days, there is no-one with Psoriasis that cannot
be helped, and in fact, for many it can be cleared totally. Sometimes it
may recur, but at least the patient knows that it can be cleared again,
making for a much more positive outlook for these people.
The actual treatments are many and varied, but the type
of treatment really depends upon the type of Psoriasis, how widespread it
is and how resistant it is, so it is impossible to generalize too much.
For some sufferers there is a “trigger” and this can be such diverse
happenings as a streptococcal sore throat while some anti-malarials and
anti-hypertensives can also produce Psoriasis as an unwanted side effect.
While the old coal tar ointments still have a place in
the therapeutic line-up, it is not the be all and end all it once was.
Since Psoriasis is a dry type of lesion, moisturizers are often first-line
treatment followed by the corticosteroid ointments.
With the more generalized forms, application of
ointments is time consuming and costly, and generalized physical
treatments are often carried out using UV light (A and B) and even the
exime laser on occasions.
There also exists a whole raft of systemic treatments
including corticosteroids taken by mouth, like Prednisolone, and a newer
bunch of medications called Retinoids. After these there are the
cytotoxics like Methotrexate, available for many years now, but still one
of the favoured treatments, despite the advent of newer cytotoxics.
For the Psoriasis sufferer, the message this week is
not to hide in the cave, but to come out and seek treatment again. With
the promise that there are so many treatments that one will work for you
should give the Psoriasis sufferer some hope, and like most medical
problems, a positive outlook gives a positive response.
Heart to Heart with Hillary
Dear Hillary,
Someone sent me an article that said the way to achieve
inner peace is to finish things you’ve started. It is definitely working
for me. I am now making a point of always finishing what I start, and I
think I am well on my way toward finding inner peace. Hillary, because I
care for you, I am passing this wisdom on to you. Here are the things that
I have finished today: two bags of potato chips, a strawberry cheesecake,
a package of Oreo’s, a bottle of wine, and a small box of chocolates. I
think this really works because I feel better already!
Wayne
Dear Wayne,
Hillary is so glad that you are feeling better, and
hopes that your little soul is feeling totally requited. A bottle of wine,
a small box of chockies and a cheesecake, and no invitation to Hillary, a
woman about whom you say in public “because I care for you.” You care
for me, you selfish creep! You only care about yourself, my Petal. Oh,
believe you me, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! You will live to
regret that letter, Wayney Pooh. Inner peace is a long way off, young man.
Dear Hillary,
Since you deal with those people who have problems
making decisions and get into “guilt trips” I thought you might be
able to use the following email which was sent to me by a friend.
Here is the “Forwarder’s” 8 step programme.
Everyone say it with me...
1. I will NOT get bad luck, lose my friends, or lose my
mailing lists if I don’t forward an e-mail.
2. Bill Gates is NOT going to send me money because I
respond to an e-mail.
3. Ford will NOT give me a 50% discount even if I
forward my e-mail to more than 50 people.
4. I will NEVER receive gift certificates, coupons, or
freebies from Coca Cola, Cracker Barrel, Old Navy, or anyone else if I
send an e-mail to 10 people.
5. There is NO SUCH THING as an e-mail tracking
program, and I am not STUPID enough to think that someone will send me
$100 for forwarding an e-mail to 10 or more people!
6. There is NO kid with cancer through the Make-a-Wish
program in England collecting anything! He did when he was 7years old. He
is now cancer free and 35 years old and DOESN’T WANT ANY MORE POST
CARDS, or GET-WELL CARDS.
7. The American Red Cross will NOT donate 50 cents to a
certain individual dying of some never-heard-of disease for every e-mail
address I send this to. The American Red Cross RECEIVES donations.
8. And finally, I WILL NOT let others guilt me into
sending things by telling me I am not their friend or that I don’t
believe in Jesus. If God wants to send me a message, I believe the bushes
in my yard will burn before He picks up a PC to pass it on!
Now, repeat this to yourself until you have it
memorized, and send it along to at least 5 of your friends before the next
full moon or you will surely be constipated for the next three months and
all of your hair will fall out!
Jasper
Dear Jasper,
Thank you for the affirmations and there are many
people who need this cathartic experience (look it up, my Petals). Why
people feel obliged to follow the dictates of an email, just because it
came through the ether, is beyond me too. I suppose every era in history
had its doomsayers, we just get ours quicker these days. Thank you for
sharing that with us.
Dear Hillary,
My girlfriend thinks she may be a little pregnant, but
does not want to go and see a doctor because she says she would be too
embarrassed. She tells me that she can get a termination done, but it will
cost me a few thousand baht. She tells me that the sooner she gets the job
done, the better it will be for everyone. Is this correct, Hillary?
Wondering
Dear Wondering,
Hillary is a little unsure of this letter, Petal.
The first thing is “a little pregnant.” She is either pregnant or she
is not. She cannot be partly pregnant. So she may be embarrassed, this is
a fairly juvenile attitude. If she is old enough to procreate she is old
enough to talk to a doctor. There are plenty of lady doctors as well as
male ones. So how does she know she is pregnant? There are do-it-yourself
tests available from the pharmacies, and if that is what she is using, buy
a test kit yourself and get her to test again so you can see the results
straight away. If she really is pregnant, is it really yours? I am sorry
to be so blunt, but there is something not quite right with this scenario.
Hillary suggests that you should proceed with caution here. She is not
correct when she says that it will be better for everyone. Has she asked
you for your opinion, and what about the unborn child?
A Slice of Thai History: Prince Damrong: Administrator extraordinaire (Part
Two 1897-1943)
by Duncan Stearn
In 1897, Prince Damrong was made minister responsible
for the Department of Mines and Geology. He employed an Englishman named
Henry Scott to work with him in the area of mining administration and by
1899, Scott had risen to become director of the department. Scott later
betrayed the trust shown to him by Prince Damrong resigning from the Mines
and Geology Department in mid-1907 in the hope of exploiting his inside
knowledge of the industry.
In his ministerial capacity, Prince Damrong was among
the forefathers of developing the Thai tin mining industry in Phuket,
although he was averse to opening Thailand to British-controlled mining
companies for fear of the political consequences.
However, when an Australian businessman, Edward Miles,
offered to redevelop Phuket’s port facilities in return for tin
royalties and tax exemptions, Damrong rejected the request for tax
exemptions, but nevertheless supported the overall concept and personally
vouched for Miles and his project, pushing it through the Council of
Ministers and recommending that a mining concession be granted.
In 1899, Damrong was chairman of the committee that set
up the Civil Service Training School. The school was renamed Chulalongkorn
University in 1917.
It has been written that Damrong did more than anyone,
with the exception of King Chulalongkorn, to transform the internal
government of Thailand from a mediaeval to a modern state.
Nevertheless, Damrong’s reforms, viewed by some as
centralising authority in Bangkok, were not met with universal approval
and were sometimes opposed with violence. In March 1902, a religious group
in the northeast, led by a former Buddhist monk named Ong Man, rebelled
against the government and its reforms. The rebels took a provincial
governor hostage but were soon dispersed by Thai troops and, in April,
crossed into Laos. There they joined a local revolt led by a holy man
named Bac My and attacked French forces at Savannakhet. They believed they
were in no danger as Bac My had convinced his gullible followers that the
French bullets would turn into frangipani flowers. The French opened fire
and over 150 rebels were killed.
Also in March, Abdul Kadir Kamaroodin, the Raja of the
northern province of Pattani, led a Muslim revolt against Damrong’s
reforms. The revolt was quickly put down and the Raja was taken in exile
to Phitsanulok.
In June 1902, ethnic Shan workers (from Burma) in the
northwest of Thailand revolted. The Shans occupied Phrae and attacked
Lampang and it took Thai troops some six weeks to finally subdue the
rebels. In response to this and the earlier rebellions, the government
introduced universal military conscription.
Prince Damrong was considered the second most powerful
man in Thailand after King Chulalongkorn. Along with his half-brother
Foreign Minister Prince Devawongse, they were considered the monarch’s
‘left’ and ‘right’ hands.
In 1909, Damrong relinquished his post as minister
responsible for the Department of Mines and Geology.
After the death of King Chulalongkorn in 1910, Prince
Damrong found himself reporting to his nephew King Vajiravudh (Rama VI),
but was unable to find the same rapport and support that he enjoyed with
Rama V. So, in 1915, aged 53, he resigned as interior minister.
He concentrated his energies as director of what
ultimately became the National Library and National Museum. He also wrote
extensively on Thai history, literature, culture, customs and the arts and
it was his innovative idea to promote the distribution of books at funeral
ceremonies to honour the deceased. It was a practice that led to much of
Thailand’s literary heritage being put into print for the first time and
in 1920, his landmark History of the Wars between Burma and Siam
was first published.
Aged 70, Prince Damrong fled to exile in Penang in
Malaya following the coup of 1932 that ended the absolute monarchy.
He spent the remainder of his life writing and, despite
a chronic heart problem, he was at his desk until three days before his
death. He died on December 1, 1943, at Varadis Palace in Bangkok, aged 81.
Bits ‘n’ Bobs
HEALTHY EATING
I can honestly testify that I am rarely guilty of
the above charge. The last time it happened was back in 1998 when
the handle of the frying pan fell off. I was reduced to eating the
remnants of the maid’s vegetable curry with boiled rice, only
because the dogs turned their noses up at the explosive chilli
concoction. I could have dined at a five star hotel for the cost of
the toilet paper and Imodium I went through in the following three
days.
In the week, my nasal sensibilities were once
again assaulted by something decomposing in the kitchen. Yes, the
maid was at it again but this time it was not Durian: it was
something far more offensive. I am talking Laos food. If you are not
familiar with this culinary ‘delight’, imagine scraping all the
nasties from a drain-cover after a heavy downpour. Place said
scrapings on a plate and then retrieve a fish that died of natural
causes a week ago from the bowl of petrol in which it has been
floating since its demise. To this colourful cocktail add
hedge-trimmings plus another handful of raw chillies. At this point,
I suggest all farang check their life and health insurance policies
to ensure that attempted suicide by self-poisoning is covered.
In a moment of devilment, or perhaps madness, I
accepted a mouthful of this evil-smelling mess of which any aspiring
witch would be proud. I am now going to keep an ample supply of this
delicacy in my medicine cabinet in case someone is in urgent need of
a stomach pump. That foul stuff is guaranteed to make any normal
person evacuate the original contents of their stomach in seconds.
ANAGRAM OF THE
WEEK
Ronald Wilson Reagan: Insane Anglo Warlord
WEIRD PLAY
The Times Crossword is by no means the easiest of
puzzles and it often takes me an hour before I burn the infernal
thing in the belief they must have put the wrong frame in when
loading it up on the Internet.
A Provost (posh speak for Headmaster) at Eton
College, probably the most famous school in England, once boasted
that he could complete the Times Crossword in the time it took his
morning egg to boil.
As the proud boast of the Provost did the rounds,
one wag is reported to have commented that the school may well have
been Eton, but the egg almost certainly was not...
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BMW BABYSITTING
Having finally managed to get my friend’s car safely
back to Pattaya, I parked it in pride of place in the drive. My beaten up
old Mira adjacent acted as the perfect foil to set off the Bavarian
designed beauty. Happy in the knowledge that I had proved the car handles
perfectly at 220 kph around tight bends with handbrake assistance, I
watched with pride as my dog urinated over the tyres as a mark of respect
and indication it was now under his care.
I had some shopping to do and jumped in my vehicle only
to find the battery was flat. No problem I thought, as I grabbed the jump
leads and opened the bonnets of both cars. Problem: there was no battery
to be seen. What my pal is going to say when I tell him it has been
stolen, I shudder to think. Funny how his car still starts though.
HIS & HERS WORD OF
THE WEEK
Entertainment (en-ter-tayn-ment) n.v.
Female: A good movie, concert, play or book.
Male: Anything that can be done while drinking, and
ends with sex.
THAI WISDOM IN THE AIR
When I read last week that the authorities are giving
serious thought to reintroducing the farce that was promoted under the
banner of ‘Thai Wisdom’, I shook my head incredulously.
Surely one prolonged successful effort in causing
traffic chaos and for business people to lose money would have been
enough? I actually thought the only reason that Beach Road was being dug
the up again was simply to give them a plausible excuse to stop the
debacle and conveniently forget that it was a monumental failure. Possibly
not.
Back to matters more sensible. In the week, my
attention was drawn by a very persistent bird (feathered variety) that was
trying to fly away with a plastic bag full of something probably quite
nasty. He had retrieved it from a rubbish bin but was having little
success in taking off with his prize. After ten minutes or so, when the
poor little puffed-out chap was having a breather, a smaller bird (most
probably his wife, judging by the way she pecked him in the head six
times) appeared and took over. Mrs. Nok then purposefully dragged the bag
across the road using her beak and proceeded to pull it through the fence
of the house next door. She dumped the bag at the base of the tree and
flew up to the nest. Mr. Nok then dutifully proceeded to grab a beakful of
whatever was in the bag and fly it up to the eager mouths above. This he
did for the next twenty minutes until the bag was empty...
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Animal Crackers: Curious cats with Fu Manchu whiskers
By Mirin E Mc Carthy
The bobcat, sometimes referred to as the red
lynx, and often confused with the lynx, is the smallest member
of the genus, standing 61 cm or 2 foot at the shoulder and
weighing 5-11 kg (12-26 pounds). Bobcats are smaller than a lynx
and more recognizable as a cat, actually about twice the body
size and weight of a domestic cat; they have shorter and more
slender legs than the lynx with small, less thickly furred paws,
whereas the Lynx is long and lanky with large “snowshoe”
paws. Bobcats also have a slightly longer tail with a black bar
on the upper side tipped with white hairs. Ears are tufted, like
the lynx, but shorter and less prominent. They range in colour
from honey orange to smoky blue and are distinctly spotted on
the back and belly. Both the bobcat and lynx have sideburn cheek
whiskers and beards. The bobcat probably takes its name from its
white tipped short tail and lolloping gait.
Adaptation
Scientists believe that bobcats (Lynx Rufus)
descended from Eurasian lynx that crossed the Bering land bridge
during a break in the Ice Ages. The North American lynx probably
made the trip much later after bobcats had laid claim to the
southerly regions. Bobcats are proficient climbers and swimmers.
The decorative-looking hair tufts on the ear tips serve as
antennae, increasing their ability to hear the slightest sound.
Secretive hunters, their keen eyes and ears, ambushes and short
bursts of speed make them the consummate small-game predators.
Bobcats can leap 3 meters from a hiding spot on to their prey
but rarely pursue it. Their prominent ear spots, which play an
important part in their aggressive posturing, possibly serve as
eye mimics giving an impression of a wide and formidable head.
Habitat
Unlike other lynx which prefer the cold,
heavily timbered northern forests, the bobcat lives in all
habitats except in metropolitan areas, even swampy woods and
deserts where there is water. They often favor rocky, broken
countryside that offers crevices and rock piles for dens and
shelter, plus protective cover for stalking prey.
Life Cycle
Solitary except during breeding season,
bobcats roam both day and night but hunt more often at dawn and
dusk to capture their favourite prey of hares and rabbits. They
tend to be more diurnal during the winter months, though are
rarely seen because of their protective colouring and watchful,
alert nature, slinking away at the sight of man. Territories are
not defended but are vigorously marked (especially by females)
with scat, urine, gland secretions, ground scrapes and
“scratching post” scrapes. Females maintain exclusive
ranges, but male ranges may overlap and include those of several
females.
Diet
Carnivores, their diet is based mainly on
hares and rabbits but will readily switch to birds and small
rodents, even fawn when these are unavailable. Common around
outlying human settlements, the bobcat will sometimes take small
farm animals including domestic cats if easily accessible.
Breeding
During the breeding season, the two sexes
seek each other briefly, resuming their solitary ways after
several days. Mating generally occurs in late winter and the
females will den in a secluded cave, hollow log or stump. A
litter of two to four kittens are produced after a gestation
period of about 65 days. Born blind and helpless in April or May
the kittens are small, weighing less than one pound and entirely
dependant on their mother for protection and nourishment. The
mother defends them, keeping the father and other large
carnivores away until the kittens are weaned at about two
months. The kittens first venture from the den at the age of
five weeks and by nine months, become independent and establish
territories of their own.
Bobcats, though not an endangered species, play an important
part in keeping disease carrying rodents under control. Their
life span in the wild is twelve plus years but they can live
into their mid twenties in captivity.
Personal Directions: The
Power of Touch Part Two
by Christina Dodd, founder and managing director
of Incorp Training Associates
When we greet people, we are in a way “touching”
them and allowing them a glimpse of what kind of person we are. Even
through the initial eye contact, we can touch people with our warmth or
sincerity and friendliness. In the smile or expression we give, we can
touch people with our enthusiasm and kindness. The eyes, the smile and the
words and the way the words are spoken all go towards touching people with
our feelings and emotions. It goes to helping us relate to those around us
and to building and bonding.
And then we can take touching a step further to real
and physical touch. A pat on the shoulder, a firm handshake, and kiss on
the cheek or even a hug. This touching is quite normal for some of us, and
for others it is unknown territory. But for those of us who practise and
experience physical touch as a part of our lives, it is truly a powerful
way of appreciating and accepting others.
It’s so good to greet someone with a hug - especially
when you know them. Hugging shows closeness and trust. Barriers break down
and bonds begin to form and strengthen when we are open in terms of this
kind of touch - if it is of course sincerely given. When other people see
two people hug as they greet each other, it makes them feel good inside.
To see such a happy display of human feelings is comforting and gives a
sense of well being. Some may even feel envy in that they wish they could
feel the same way.
Recently I had lunch with an associate and we were
discussing many issues about our business. It was the first time I had
actually met him (although we had spoken on the phone) and I noticed
during our meeting his way of touching others, not only through his smile
or expression, or his words, but through a few gentle taps of my forearm
every now and then as we spoke. It created a closeness and feeling of
trust and set us on a path of openness with each other, in terms of our
future business dealings. It seemed as though, at the end of our meeting,
that we had both known each other for a long time and that we had so much
in common.
Touch, given with good intention and sincerity, can
elevate a situation beyond all expectations. Either through your eyes, a
smile, the things you say or a physical hug, handshake or gesture - touch
is all powerful. I’m not suggesting the next time you go into a Seven
Eleven store that you should race up and hug all the staff! But wouldn’t
it be a nice change to say hello back to them!
Have a good week and stay in “touch”.
Christina can be contacted by email at christina.dodd@
incorptraining.com or directly at Incorp Training Associates in Bangkok.
Tel: (02) 6521867-8 or Fax: (02) 6521870. Programs and services can be
found at the Incorp website www.incorp training.com
Social Commentary by Khai Khem
Is growing old gracefully strictly for the birds?
Why should we be condemned, like all humans before us,
to get old according to the miserly commands of nature? Why should we be
doomed to grow old, gray, yellow and saggy before we turn to ashes and
dust?
Modern science is now aiding us in this fight against
nature. Cosmetic surgery is so common these days it’s not a worthy
subject of discussion anymore unless it’s a botched mess and the victim
appears on a TV news program to help promote a multi-million dollar
lawsuit.
Botox and estrogen injections eliminate the road map of
lines that mark the ravages of time. Our vanity seems to know no bounds.
Why should we suffer the ugliness of a furrowed brow, when we can erase
the evidence of worry, anger, smoking, alcohol abuse sun damage, liver
spots and other hazards of life beyond the womb?
There was a time when a bottle of hair dye, pancake
make-up, a toupee and a darkly lighted room was about the best effort we
could make. Those crinkles around the eyes were called laugh lines and the
bulges around the middle were laughingly referred to as ‘love
handles’. The craggy weather worn face had character and a person’s
life story was written there.
Now we have herbal massage, hormone treatment, and our
facial character is sliced away with the surgeon’s knife. Those belly
bugles aren’t love-handles anymore. They are now the signal that you may
have to pay for 2 seats on an airplane flight. Tummies are supposed to be
rock-hard enough to bounce golf balls.
So do we still have people who are willing to grow old
gracefully? Yes. The poor and those who wimp-out at the sight of a
hospital or a medical clinic will probably opt out of the more radical
procedures like scalpels flicked near the eyeballs and liposuction which
leaves bruises most rugby players would wince at. These modern techniques,
procedures, chemicals and products all do carry some risks.
There are a few codgers who are optimistic enough to
weigh the warnings and decide they do not have to live out their remaining
days as perky as a teenager. Anti-aging potions do give us a choice. But
choose we must.
The senior citizen who takes a pass on the Fountain of
Youth will have to settle for looking not only his or her age, but
probably older than their peers. They will have to accept looking as
colorless as winter next to their friends who appear as bright and
sparkling as Fourth of July fireworks, and have pursued the interminable
processes now available to us that keep the ravages of time at bay.
Can the stubborn people who refuse to give in to all
the hype grow old in peace? Sure. They can if their egos allow it.
Elizabeth Taylor once remarked, “I don’t mind GETTING old. What I
really mind is LOOKING old.”
The Message In The Moon: Sun in Virgo/Moon in Pisces (The Gentle Soul)
by Anchalee Kaewmanee
People find it hard to resist the gentle
and refined manner of the Virgo-Pisces. Reserved, soft-spoken and very
sensitive, these individuals have been blessed with an inner serenity to
which others are drawn.
These natives have learned from experience that if they
treat others with compassion and sincerity, they will usually receive the
same response. They know that whatever they need to accomplish in life
will be achieved more easily through kindness and people will reciprocate.
The Virgo-Pisces knows that aggression and toughness is not the only way
to get what one wants in life. Besides, these natives know they are not
the aggressive type.
Acutely sensitive, they are all painfully aware of the
malice and injustice that exists in the world around them. But they know
they can do little to affect it, so they adapt to the rigors of life and
do what they can to spread a little kindness. People born under this
Sun-Moon sign have high standards and virtuous principals and do their
best to maintain them. Less judgmental and critical than their fellow
Virgos, this combination believes a good deed will be appreciated.
Because of their inherent sympathy and kindness, they
are masters of subtle persuasion. Understanding the necessity of security,
they use their powers of tact and diplomacy to acquire the material
comforts they enjoy so much. Like most Virgos, this combination will find
fulfillment through work. In their professional life this combo is
sincerely dedicated to their chosen field and will work hard and long
hours with less reward than some more mercenary Sun-Moon signs.
Basically passive, these natives often run the risk of
settling for less than they are capable of accomplishing and often see
less talented but more aggressive colleagues promoted over them. The
Virgo-Pisces finds it distasteful to engage in ugly office politics. A
word of advice to these natives; a little self-assertion is not always a
bad thing.
Blessed with intense imagination and many intellectual
and creative talents, these individuals must find practical methods to put
them to good use. These talents should not dormant.
When (and if) the natives of this Sun-Moon combo learn
to stand up for themselves, when it is appropriate they will take a few
risks now and then. When they learn to dare, they will find more
satisfaction in their careers.
Satisfaction in work is very important because without
a sense of achievement the Virgo-Pisces will suffer from depression and
anxiety. The root cause of this is usually a sense that they have missed
the boat somewhere down the line and will therefore see themselves as
failures. Much of the passivity of this Sun-Moon sign is self-imposed fear
and has no basis in reality. A good dose of self confidence is
recommended.
Surroundings have a great influence on people born into
this sign. They are such good Samaritans that they often sacrifice their
own needs for others. Blessed (or cursed) with acute sensitivity, they
often absorb the moods of those around them.
In order to maintain individual equilibrium, the
Virgo-Pisces must make a concentrated effort to find home and work
environments which do not create great conflict and tension. The delicate
nature of this Sun-Moon’s inner emotional makeup is not suited to
surroundings which are constantly hostile and chaotic. If that is the
case, it’s best to retreat for awhile and find some quiet time to regain
inner peace and harmony. Meditation, study and quiet forms of relaxation
are ideal for these natives. The Virgo-Pisces has a highly spiritual
nature and will rejuvenate quickly when left in peace.
An active, fruitful imagination and fine aesthetic
sense will often lead this combination into artistic careers. These
individuals can excel in service-related fields such as medicine, law and
social work.
The Virgo-Pisces person must take care when choosing a
partner; they could end up being the one who gives all and gets nothing in
return. It would be wise to stay clear of relationships with people who
are selfish. It is important to choose a mate who respects those fine
qualities of compassion and sincerity. This will add the dimension of
emotional support which is so vital to this Sun-Moon sign.
PC Basics: Location, location, location
by Jason Rowlands
Following on a little from last week’s column
regarding file sharing, I’ve been looking at some of the different
programs for people on a modem. So far, the best one I’ve found is
called iMesh, and can be downloaded from www.imesh.com
It seems to be very good at locating alternative
sources for downloading files, and consistently maintains a high data
transfer rate. Additionally, there seems to be a large amount of content
available, as there are generally between half a million and three
quarters of a million users online at any one time.
One nice feature about the program that I particularly
like is the ability to look directly at all the files being shared by a
particular user. This means that if you are downloading, for example, a
particular MP3 file, you can look at all the other MP3 files that that
user has, and add any of them to your download queue. This way, you will
probably find files that you did not know existed, and as such the program
is a lot more useful than average because of this.
Personally, I’ve already dumped Morpheus in favour of
iMesh, and so far I’ve been very happy with the results. If I do happen
to find any better alternatives, I’ll be sure to let you know.
I’ve received an email from a reader regarding
finding particular files on his hard drive, so this week I thought I’d
write a little about that. By default, most Windows programs will save
their files to a specified directory on your hard drive. Unfortunately,
the location of the directory is not always apparent. The best thing to do
with this is to tell the program exactly where you want to save the files
each time you create something.
For simplicity, I would recommend that you use you’re
“My Documents” folder for ALL of your file saves, and create
sub-directories for specific file types. By keeping all of your files in
one place, this means that you should never have a problem locating a
particular one.
Always remember though to give the saved file a name
that describes what it contains; a file called “Excel Spreadsheet 1”
could be anything, but call it “Personal accounts 6/00 to 6/02” and it
makes life a lot easier.
As for locating lost files on your drive, Windows has a
moderately good search facility built in. To use it, just go to Start,
then Search. Alternatively, it can be accessed through the toolbar on
Explorer. You must enter either a filename (or part of one) or specify a
file type. If you know part of the name, then if you enter name*.* (*is a
wildcard; in other words, it will look for ALL files that have in their
name the text you entered) it will look for any matches on your drive.
If, however, you can’t remember the name, but know
what type of file it is, enter *.file type. DOC is used for Word
documents, XLS for Excel spreadsheets, JPG or JPEG for certain image
files, and so on. This should allow you to find any file that you want,
unless you cannot remember either any part of the file name, or what the
file type is. In that case, you can either try to look at all the
directories on your PC to see if you can spot it, or get a program which
manages files.
If you want to catalogue all the image files on your
drive, try ACDsee. Other than that, there are a whole host of different
programs out there which can manage your files for you.
If you have any PC related questions please send them
to [email protected]
Women’s World: A woman’s best friend (Part I)
by Lesley Warmer
While I was thinking of a new subject for my column, I
was delving into my handbag searching for a pen, when suddenly the idea
came to me, “the handbag”. Have you ever turned out your handbag and
wondered why on earth you’ve been carrying so much junk around? Ask most
women what they carry in their bag and the usual answer will be, “My
purse, credit cards, etc.”
Victorian
petit point purse
When I decided to write this article I thought I should
check my own bag. I’m ashamed to say that I found a mountain of rubbish,
2 empty lipsticks, 3 old 1 2 call cards, 3 pieces of paper with old
messages written on them, several business cards, 5 pens, 1 pencil, 3
lighters, 1 brush, 1 comb, 1 mirror, a huge wad of tissue, 2 bunches of
keys, 2 ID cards, scissors, nail file, my phone instruction book,
paracetemol, anti-run glue for tights, nail file, sunglasses, 2 pairs of
other glasses, spare contact lenses, deodorant, several loose keys with no
known lock to fit, loads of coins, a pot of gel, makeup, 1 boiled sweet,
my purse (which houses another pile of junk) and my mobile phone.
70’s
magazine “Clutch”
At the weekend I never carry a handbag and don’t miss
it, so I’m totally convinced that they are not essential, although
nothing would part my mother from hers. I was going to ask my friend
Monika what she has in her bag as it’s always fascinated me, being
massive and impossible to lift, but I don’t think I’d have enough
space in the column to list the contents!
It seems that our male counterparts were the first ones
to carry a form of handbag. In ancient times, men carried pouches to keep
their flint and money in, which they called “pockets”. These were hung
by thongs from the back of the girdle and were often cut from behind by
thieves who knew how to capitalize on a friendly pat on the back; hence
the name “cut purse”.
Ladies first had small sack handbags that contained
pomanders (scented oranges). By the 1400’s both men and women were
wearing purses, and as times prospered and the little sacks got fuller,
they were ornamented with gold or elaborate embroidery. A century later,
the drawstring bag was considered a status possession. Paintings of that
era show flat bags gathered by tasseled strings.
In 1670, breeches with built-in pockets came into
fashion for the men and they dispensed with their handbags.
By the end of the century fashion changed to voluminous
skirts so women started wearing their pouches under their skirts. Or
keeping their accessories hanging on chains known as chatelaines from
their skirt waists. Then bulging pockets went out in the 1800s with the
neo-classical dress of the day made of lightweight Muslim that demanded a
slim outline. This lead to the introduction of small drawstring bags
called a reticule, which were dubbed by critics “ridicules”. These
were probably the prettiest of all handbags; hand stitched intricate
designs with hundreds of tiny beads and often set on silver clasps and
chains.
Then during the First World War women started indulging
in the larger handbag, I would imagine because they wanted to keep their
belongings with them, due to the uncertainty of the time.
As with most fashion in the 1920s designs became a lot
more daring. The celluloid bag came into fashion featuring wonderful
detail like mother of pearl and enamel. There were lipstick holders,
compacts and mirrors discreetly designed to go inside.
(To be continued next week)
Battling the Crab: Part 6 of a 6-part series about fighting cancer
By Leslie Wright
Mood swings
A strange side-effect of the chemotherapy and the
latest round of radiation therapy on my brain is mood-swings.
I had read that depression is common amongst cancer
patients, and I felt that I had never succumbed to that. But certainly my
temper had been affected. I would snap at staff for minor infractions, and
found I was far less tolerant and patient than previously. (Although some
who know me well would say that I was never particularly patient or
tolerant in the first place!)
It is enormously helpful to have close friends you can
trust to whom you can talk freely & openly about the disease and its
effects (as opposed to self-centred acquaintances - 90% of whom don’t
want to know and 10% of whom will be glad.) And this not only applies to
the cancer sufferer, but also friends and family members who themselves
suffer psychologically along with the victim, and may well have to care
for and nurture someone very near and dear who is suffering before their
very eyes. It is difficult to maintain a positive outlook and supportive
spirit under those circumstances.
If you feel it is easier to unburden to people in a
similar situation to yourself, a support group can be very helpful.
But in all cases, it is vitally important to be able to
unburden yourself of the enormous stress and tension that inevitably
accompanies the fight against the disease and the adverse effects of the
radiation and chemotherapy, and the fear of dying, and the onerous task of
having to put one’s affairs in order so as not to leave an unholy mess
for others to sort out after you’ve gone - and in my case, the
additional stress of keeping my brokerage company running as smoothly as
my unexpectedly curtailed and limited time would allow, in order to look
after the interests of the clients who, when informed last December of my
health situation, had overwhelmingly chosen to stay with me rather than
transfer allegiance to another brokerage.
Plus of course, I either had to draw down from capital
(not a wise move when the markets were still dropping) or generate the
necessary income not only to keep the company afloat, but to pay the
enormous hospital bills that fighting this disease were creating - which
averaged over Bt.150,000 a month! I have been more fortunate in my career
path than many, and was financially secure enough to absorb these
unexpected additional expenditures. But I rue having let my comparatively
inexpensive local healthcare insurance lapse - despite its excluding
pre-existing conditions and limiting the choice of hospitals: the one I
chose would have been covered, and lung cancer was certainly not a
pre-existing condition!
Alternative therapies
When I was first diagnosed with cancer, and given only
a limited life expectancy, I read up whatever I could on cancer in general
and my cancer in particular.
One of the themes that kept recurring was the power of
the mind: having and maintaining a strong positive attitude. Never give
up. Hope, pray, rant & cant if it will help - but keep fighting.
In your mind stay focussed on defeating this invasion
of your well-being, never letting it gain the upper hand and dragging you
down to the pit of despair. Eliminate all negative influences (including
doctors of doom & gloom), and keep telling yourself that you will
live, that you will get better.
I’m sure this attitude contributed to my going into
remission - and remember that this was against all the statistical odds:
5% for; 95% against.
Second, be aware that the standard medical procedures
of cutting, burning and poisoning are not the only therapies to be
considered, since their success rate in some cases is appallingly low.
At the same time it must be said that many alternative
medicines have never been properly tested and evaluated scientifically,
and their claimed success rate is very often anecdotal rather than
provable.
But again, the power of the body to heal itself is
often underestimated. If you truly believe the alternative herbal medicine
will cure you, it may well do so.
There are also newly-developed drugs which are not
readily available in USA, UK or Europe, because they are still awaiting
FDA approval. Clinical trials can take years and are very expensive.
Again, perhaps we are fortunate in that Thailand is one
of the countries in which these clinical trials are undertaken (possibly
on patients who haven’t the faintest idea what they’re being given,
and are too polite and humble to question their almighty doctors); and
virtually any pharmaceutical concoction is available without prescription
in Thailand.
Immune-system boosters not only work for some AIDS
patients, they also help fight some cancers.
Traditional herbal medicines can also play a part. For
instance, shortly after I was first diagnosed, a good friend gave me some
Chinese-Thai herbal medicine to be taken every day. This evil-tasting
concoction is reported to have positive results with cancer - or
stimulates the immune system to fight the cancer, or at least, is a tonic
to make you feel better (if you can tolerate the taste). So, having little
to lose and much to gain, I tried it, and my friend has kindly kept me
supplied with it ever since. It may taste horrible, and it may or may not
have been efficacious in reducing the tumour, but perhaps it did.
Something did.
I also read that taking high doses of vitamins and
minerals helps the immune system to fight the cancer. I had been taking
the usual vitamin supplements for years, but upped the daily dose of
vitamins C, E, A, B, & K and the minerals that are associated with the
proper absorption of them - notably selenium & zinc. A potpourri of 10
tablets in all, freely available across the counter of any pharmacy.
I was also introduced by a friend to the therapeutic
value of Reiki, which is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and
relaxation that also promotes healing by the laying on of hands.
It is not a quasi-religious load of mumbo-jumbo, but
does seem to have some real effect on the body. I was introduced to a
soft-spoken part-time expatriate resident of Pattaya, who apart from his
main profession, is a Reiki master. He kindly took the time to explain to
me how Reiki works, and eventually taught me how to apply the therapy to
myself. And all for no personal gain! Reiki simply involves laying hands
on certain parts of the body, and leaving them there for a few minutes.
Somehow, a certain amount of heat really is generated in the hands. And
whether this stimulates underlying organs, or the body’s own immune
system, or fights cancer cells, I cannot say. If nothing else, though, it
relaxes you, takes away a great deal of the tension and stress that
accompany battling cancer, and gives you a feeling of calmness and peace.
And for those reasons alone, it’s worth doing.
I hope you have found this mini-series helpful in
understanding a little of what cancer patients go through, and how much
the support and encouragement of friends can mean in what is, literally, a
fight for life. But above all, believe you can beat it.
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