Dear ‘farangs who write in to complain’,
Other than the unfortunate ones who booked holidays based
upon the brochure images only to be shocked by the reality... Quit your
whining!
You are all adults and have the will to participate in
the Pattaya City circus or not. Just like the rest of life, you can’t pick
and choose the parts you want and those you don’t.
Simply complaining about “how it should be” or “how
it is back home” is not going to change anything and will only make your
life and my reading time less enjoyable.
I realise I am ‘reply fodder’ for those individuals
and collectives who use this forum to plead support and understanding for
themselves, week after week, over the cheating baht bus/motorcycle hire/bar
girl ... etc.
I have a simple message. Be honest with yourself. Enjoy
your work, bar owning, retirements, vacations, time on the run, whatever!
Just stop complaining needlessly. It is now beyond tedious!
Some interesting points as to real reasons for complaints
would be cool, but to hear for the umpteenth time that the taxi guy did you
for an extra 10-20 baht is, well, frankly petty.
Thailand is a beautiful, diverse nation, unfortunately
you are not getting to experience much of it in Pattaya. It is as much
detached from normality as is possible to be.
You either live or visit there for your own motives. Own
up to yourselves as to your motivations for staying. Is it the cost of
living, the beaches? There are much more economical and picturesque
locations within this very nation.
Pattaya is an ‘industry’ town, like many around Asia,
the place (or the water) has never been the same since the R+R days of the
Vietnam War. The majority who live, visit, retire or frequent there are
directly, or indirectly, participants in the entertainment trade. It’s a
trickle down system from the main source of income. No honey, no money!
I am not being judgmental, it’s fun, a distraction; but
what it is not is ‘real’ life for Farangs. Everybody should live life as
they wish and the law will allow, just accept the reality of the situation.
It’s supply and demand. Given the choice to the
‘twen-teen something’ companion who is the object of your affection. Do
you represent a soul mate, or a more immediate financial solution than being
starving and being homeless?
When you embrace the truth it becomes so much easier. You
want companionship, love, another ‘hostess’ for your business? It can be
provided in exchange for remuneration or actual committed long-term
security.
There will be no more mind games, he/she/they cannot
control you with affections and you have no need to lie and make empty
promises for futures you cannot (or will not) provide.
If you are continually being cheated, overcharged, waking
up without your gold fillings; then take charge. Vote with your wallet! Buy
a bike, go elsewhere on your vacation, move to that idyllic beach ... but
you wont. It is easier to keep complaining but staying for your ‘own
reasons’.
I don’t think you should accept bad service, but it
seems you guys just don’t learn and keep going back for more. 18 counts
for you guys too, it is the age of legal freedom of choice.
Brock Landers