|
- HEADLINES [click on headline to view story]:
-
I too was accosted
-
Mind numbing II
-
Obama popularity
-
No Parking
-
Michael F. Lowe
-
Offended by bar language
-
When will people stop laughing at the discomfort of others?
-
Thai Proverbs for Farangs
|
I too was accosted
Editor;
Re Mickeyfin (Burnly): I too was accosted by at least two (or was it three)
ladies after returning from a night out in various UK towns and indeed
married two of them after listening to their hard up stories (actually as I
was fairly young then we supposedly fell in love). Of course it was a scam
and I lost a lot of money! However, after leaving my brains behind at Don
Muang (we are looking 1998) I met a lady here and her scam was better than
the UK ones. We have been happily married now 11 years. We have a nice
house, car, etc., and yes I do spend a bit of money on our stepdaughter to
get her the education her mum didn’t get. Also her family, but hey! You
can’t take it with you when you go! Perhaps you are the mind numbing person
in the title of your letter! Don’t be ashamed to admit it - be a man and
tell us more about your experiences.
Regards,
Numb Brain
Mind numbing II
Editor;
My friend Mickeyfin Burnley rightfully is a little confused about why
farangs put their finances in the hands of Thai ladies of the evening. He
related a story that sounded like a classic Thai fleecing only it was set in
England. I have to admit that when one thinks of it that way, it does seem a
little insane.
I have an unproven theory about why foreigners come to Thailand and do put
their trust in ladies of the evening so maybe it will help Mickeyfin and
others understand why it happens.
If the story he had related were actually accurate and was set in England or
America or in most Western countries for that matter, it would have gone
something like this:
A man meets a woman in school, at work, in a bank or restaurant or through a
friend. She is a respectable girl who works as an executive, secretary,
legal assistant, librarian or any one of a hundred other “legitimate”
callings. They get married and in many cases have children. Somewhere along
the way the woman decides, maybe justifiably, that he is a rotter, or maybe
she wants to “find” her own identity, or maybe she gets involved with
another man at work or possibly even a woman. Maybe their sex life is the
pits or maybe she just can’t stand the hairy mole on his back. In any event,
she now wants a divorce, but unlike the bar girls in Thailand, she doesn’t
listen to other bar girls and get advice to fleece him or simply have
unreasonable expectations. She gets advice from friends to secure an
attorney. The attorney gives her the idea to be greedy and ask for the
impossible and settle for the ridiculous. So now she takes his house, kids,
furniture, car and maybe even a portion of his retirement fund.
The end is the same which would seem to prove that greed and unreasonable
expectations know no particular ethnic group, country or profession (with
the possible exception of law). They would appear to be universal, so that
brings us to only one possible consideration; the amount of the fleecing. I
had a couple of friends in Pattaya who lost homes valued at one million baht
to insincere Thai bar girls. In all fairness I have to admit that the amount
they were taken for wouldn’t have been sufficient as a down payment on a
couple of houses that I lost back in America. So logically it would seem to
follow that just possibly the reason a lot of farangs come here and take a
chance of being fleeced by a lady of the evening is a relative matter in
that once again it requires a role of the dice. Only this time the stakes
are considerably lower. You see a fleecing in Thailand costs about one
eighth or less of what it costs to get fleeced in our own countries by
“respectable” girls.
John Arnone
Yasothon
Obama popularity
Editor;
Bob from Pattaya seems to have transposed his digits. Obama’s Gallup Poll
job approval rating at 100 days was 65%, not 56%. These numbers are
available at the Gallup web site - www. gallup.com.
Ken from Maine
No Parking
Sir:
A friend who lives in a condo close to the beach got together with a few
neighbors. They petitioned the traffic commission to paint a red-white no
parking zone in front of the condo building. This was because the street
becomes a traffic zone from hell during the weekends. Cars block the entry
and exit ramps as well, so residents have difficulty gaining access to their
building. Surprisingly, the traffic department was attentive, and lo and
behold, the residents woke up one recent morning to find a red-white no
parking zone … painted on the wrong side of the street. Bravo!
Yankeleh
Michael F. Lowe
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived
so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other that we are still. Call me by the old
familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
AJW
Offended by bar language
Editor;
As students of language will know, language is constantly changing and
developing to accommodate new words and structures. Therefore, based on the
colloquial English conversation I hear from farang around Pattaya, I would
like to suggest that English teachers should now incorporate the following
two expletives into their curriculum as part of normal English language: (a)
the F word as an adverb of degree to intensify adjectives and (b) a
four-letter word beginning with C to describe an obnoxious person.
Seriously, though, I would be interested to know why farangs feel it
necessary to use the aforementioned expletives so frequently. I was recently
in a certain farang establishment in Pattaya watching cricket on TV and was
genuinely shocked by the level of conversation going on around me. I am not
naive enough to expect that people will not use bad language but what I
heard went way beyond what one would expect to hear in a public place. When
I complained to the staff about the language, all they could say was, “It’s
up to them.” In other words, if people upset other customers by their
language, mai pen rai.
I am not sure if I am a voice crying in the wilderness and would be
interested to know if others are similarly perturbed by the way in which
certain farangs choose to express themselves, especially in the company of
women and children.
Brian (from UK)
When will people stop laughing at the discomfort of others?
Editor;
The police in Pattaya seemed to be non-existent during Songkran. Hoards of
people in trucks were using powerful spray guns to go after those one
motorbikes and baht taxis while buckets of water were dumped on the
unsuspecting. Most of this must have been ruled extremely dangerous, but the
same old antics go on year after year. And it is only getting worse.
It’s all done while the authorities look the other way and drive around in
their armored cars. After a period of six days people were anxious over the
disruption of mail service. They were asking why things were so much out of
control. I should think that business people especially are beginning to
think that a great deal of this water business is unnecessary, when beer
drenched rough necks from other countries join in you think something must
be changed. Picture of traffic jams on roads leading into Pattaya are simply
unbelievable.
People leave the country in droves. Those left behind store up food and try
to forget the mayhem going on outside. They try to avoid the caravans of
what some people describe as “fun lovers”. It all went on far too long. When
will it all end? When will people stop laughing at the discomfort of others?
Thailand now wants to put its best foot forward, but how can it when it
shows nations of the world that it doesn’t care how many billions of liters
of water it wastes?
R.E.S.
Thai Proverbs for Farangs
By Thai-lish
Are you one of those people who are interested in Thai culture,
mentality, and language but find it hard to understand and get to the hearts
of the people?
Learn these Thai proverbs
and you’ll have a deeper understanding of Thais and even impress a few.
Thai proverbs are centuries
old, and are widely used among the Thai people in order to explain the
situations and matters so that others can have a clear picture about what
they are saying.
Some of the proverbs have
words that usually rhyme the end of the first clause with the beginning or
the middle of the second clause.
It is an artistic and fun
way and to communicate. Try it.
Adage 1
Since the economy is not so
great nowadays, we’ll begin with one about gold.
เสียทองท่วมหัว...ไม่ยอมเสียผัวให้ใคร
(siă-tawng-tuâm-huă…mâi-yawm-siă-puă-hâi-krai)
siă-tawng = to lose gold
tuâm-huă = as high as the head
mâi-yawm = not letting
siă-puă = to lose husband
hâi-krai = to anyone
Meaning: “I’d rather lose a pile of gold as high as
my head, than to lose husband to anyone”
Now in ancient times a husband was more valuable than
gold or other expensive things. But ancient times or not, if a certain woman
finds out another lady is after her husband or he is after her, she will
spring out her claws and roar like a tiger. There are many cases in Thailand
that the wife or girlfriend actually cuts off the vital part of her husband
or boyfriend and feeds it to the ducks. Some pour hot sugar syrup on it
while he’s asleep, while the worse cases reported that after cutting ‘it’
off while he was asleep, she put in a blender and turned it on. The
intention was not to make a banana shake, but to make sure that it never
could be used again. This way she can still keep her gold and her husband.
Coming back to present times, since the economy is so
bad and gold is expensive; here’s a new one for some of you: “I’d rather
lose all men but not an ounce of gold.”
See you with more proverbs next week. Sawat dee.
|
|
|
|
Letters published in the Mailbag of Pattaya Mail
are also published here.
|
It is noticed that the letters herein in no way reflect the opinions of the editor or writers for Pattaya Mail, but are unsolicited letters from our readers, expressing their own opinions. No anonymous letters or those without genuine addresses are printed, and, whilst we do not object to the use of a nom de plume, preference will be
given to those signed.
|
|