Dear Hillary,
I have the answer to the man (Matchmaker) who has some “good” Thai ladies looking for husbands. So nice to hear that you are happy with your Thai girl. I have been with my wife for more than 20 years. I have never looked back. My advice regarding your Thai friends looking for a Farang, I would have to say that the chances of these girls finding a “normal Farang man” are very slim. I hear many times a Farang would ask, “are there good Thai girls out there?” I have been here long enough to know that there are many good, girls out there; however, 80 percent of Farang men I have met over the years, well, put it this way – I would not take them home to meet my mother. My eldest daughter is 23 years old this month, she will be starting her masters in July. I hope to god that she will find a good Thai man. The last thing I want is for her to be with a Farang but at the end of the day it is her choice. Your girl’s friends, they look at you, just a normal guy with a savings account and they see that you and your girl are happy and that you take good care of her. And they want some of that too. My advice to you is to drop the matchmaking, you may be able to find a find a Farang for these girls but if and when it goes wrong, guess who will be in a world of pain? So be happy, love your girlfriend but drop the matchmaking.
Thai Mark
Dear Thai Mark,
You have hit the right mark with your reply to Matchmaker. With things as changeable as human emotions, it is best to stay away. Let these women find their own Farang husbands.
