Dear Hillary,
I am a single, mature English lady who has lived in Pattaya for 3 months. My question is, why is it that you don’t see white ladies out with young Thai men? There are lots of old white men out with their Thai ladies but not the other way round. I know you can visit male go-go bars and get a handsome man for the evening but where do white ladies take their handsome Thai men? I would love to take a handsome Thai man out for a meal, a drink and dancing, and I’m sure there must be plenty of ladies like myself who would love to do this also, so how do I do it?
Perplexed
Dear Perplexed (of Pattaya),
Goodness me, my Petal, just where in England are you from? Some strange little village where the height of excitement is the Maypole dances, and that’s only once a year? What is stopping you taking your handsome Thai man anywhere? In some areas a white English lady would be looked upon as a bit of a prize, just like the trophy wives the English males have. I think you have some sort of psychological hang-up, and it is you who is afraid to be seen with a Thai man, not the other way round. Be brave, and let me know what happened after you took the public plunge! I am quite sure nobody will have thrown nasturtiums, or even aspersions.
