Dear Hillary,
An old GF has contacted me to say that she has split from her husband, has packed in her job and is going home (up country). The SMS message was to tell me all that, and the request for some money as she hasn’t got any. I said I could spare her 10,000 baht, but that was all. Do you think that is a bit mean, or not? It wasn’t really a GF relationship, just a bit on the side for an afternoon of fun every month or so.
Jim
Dear Jim,
Why are you asking this question? You description of the relationship means she was really a ‘gik’, not a GF. You have no legal responsibilities, so whatever you like to give her is really up to you. You don’t know how many other men have been sent the same SMS, do you? Just be careful your wife doesn’t ask where the money went!
