Dear Hillary,
My Thai GF wants me to go with her up country to meet her parents. We have been together for almost a year, but I do not want to go, as I’m not convinced the relationship will really last, the girl wants lots of time with the girlfriends coming home all hours and I think she might be ‘working’ if you know what I mean. How do I tell her I’m not going? I don’t want to be rude to her folks, but it’s not on as far as I’m concerned.
Jamie
Dear Jamie,
It’s easy, my Petal. You just say, “Sorry, but I’m not going up country.” Then you leave it like that. However, never mind the trip to see her folks, I can see you have a huge problem with your relationship with your GF. You need to get all your doubts out of the way before going further down the relationship pathway. In fact, I’d probably recommend you run backwards down the relationship highway, Petal.
