Dear Hillary,
I used my husband’s computer the other day and I was horrified to find he had been looking at some of the porn sites. I didn’t check to see how long this has been going on, but at 65 years of age, surely he should be over that immature phase of his life. Should I send him for counseling, and where do you recommend?
Gertrude
Dear Gertrude,
I am presuming that you are of similar age to your husband, and it would also seem that you wear the pants in the family. Sending him for counseling! Come on, Petal. You may be married to the man, but that doesn’t give you the power to send him anywhere. I am sorry to tell you, Gertrude, that watching a bit of porn is nothing to do with “immature phases”, and is probably an important let-off for the average husband (especially ones married to domineering wives). Let the man be a man. Let him have enjoyment from his hormones. And stop looking in other people’s computers. It’s just like steaming open other people’s mail!
