Dear Hillary,
You’ve rescued me before, so I hope you can do it again. I’ve been taking out this older Thai woman over a five year period. One night a week and we’ll go to a bar or listen to music for fun times. Been to a bar recently where one of the bar girls took a liking to her and started to fondle her. She didn’t say anything in the bar, but now refuses to go anywhere as she says it is “ugly”. Is this common? It’s not as if she is sexless and we had good sexy times together before. Do I play along with this, or just go cold and look out for the next sexy woman?
Johnny
Dear Johnny,
How nice of you to remember that last time I pulled you out drowning in the swimming pool of desire. I am so glad to hear that you are OK these days. Now to this year’s problem. Petal, she either has to snap out of this “ugly” situation by herself or join a religious group somewhere. Don’t try and change her, she has to find her own way here. She will try and make you commit to her way of thinking, so be prepared. This is a lost cause. Start looking around and just let the relationship slowly die.
