Dear Hillary,
After a few misfires at finding a good woman, I started reading your column and found that I wasn’t the only one with problems. So I could see where we were all going up the wrong road. I slowed down and took a turn the other way and very soon met a beautiful woman who was interested in me and not my bank account. She has never asked me for a penny for anything, while all the ones before always had their hand out for something or other, new phones, gold, motorcycles, house for Mama Papa and all the other reasons that these women seem to find. I could appreciate her for what she was – a good woman. I consider myself to be very lucky to be with someone like that. For my so-called friends it has been a bit of a shock, as she used to work in a cabaret, but I don’t believe it is important what anyone used to be before. Sorry no champers, for guessing. Yes, she is a katoey, but is still the best woman I’ve ever been with.
Graham
Dear Graham,
Yours is an intriguing story, and I agree with you that what someone was before, really does not matter. It is the ‘now’ that is important, and if you and your “best woman” are happy in the ‘now’, that is all that matters. Ignore those people who would make judgments, it is your life, not theirs.
