Dear Hillary,
Every week there’s somebody writing in that they’ve been cheated by their Thai GF. You pass it off that these are all girls from the bar, but that’s not always the case. I know of two husbands that were cheated on by their Thai wives, good types and not bar girls. Ask around and they are not the only ones. There are plenty of them. Is this the way Thai women work? OK when it’s new and exciting, but when it becomes routine go and play up. The Gik thing they all talk about, as if it is normal.
Jamie
Dear Jamie,
Thai women do like a little fun in their lives, and if the marriage has become dull, then they’ll go and spice it up a bit. Getting in the Gik situation is not healthy for any marriage which needs ‘trust’ to blossom, but it does mean that the two people in the marriage should look at their situations and both work to put the spark back into the relationship.
