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Handling death without
dignity
Attn. Mailbag,
Today (Sunday 6 February 2000) my neighbour and friend
passed away peacefully at his rented home after a long illness. He was a
Swede living with his Thai wife of many years. This is a traumatic
situation for all concerned. However, something much more traumatic was to
happen.
Not longer than 30 minutes after his passing away, a
red open pick up truck appeared in our very quiet soi along the beach in
Ban Rong Po, with about 14 people, boys and girls in their teens and early
twenties, riding in the open back. There was a red and a blue light on top
of the cab and one of them had a walkie-talkie in his hand.
A few of the guys had a patch on their sleeve from
which I could read “rescue”. I asked one of the boys why they were
coming to our Soi and he answered that a “falang” had died and they
were checking this out.
At that time, two more very old Toyota cars appeared
with blue and red lights and more guys jumped out as if there has been a
serious accident or a shootout and they were called to collect the bodies.
When I asked them why, if they came to “check things out”, they had to
bring their girlfriends, of course nobody knew what to say. It was as if
they were going to the beach or a party and everybody just jumped on the
car just for fun. I explained that this was very disrespectful, that there
were people grieving, and that it was unwarranted to come in such numbers.
Then an old beaten up police truck arrived with a very
junior policeman who also did not really know what was going on. Suddenly
I saw a guy with a video camera making his way to our gate. After I asked
what he was doing he said he was from the local cable news. Is the
peaceful death of a person news nowadays? I mean news to put on the TV?
After this a white pickup truck from the Sawang
Boriboon Rescue Organisation drove up and parked on the driveway of our
compound. They came to collect the body, to bring it to the police
hospital, for autopsy I assumed. A family member of the wife of my friend
arrived and her parents were on the way. There was no such thing as
waiting for the parents, and about ten people, police and rescue went up
the stairs and entered the house.
In all my 25 years in Thailand I have never ever
witnessed such a disrespectful circus. All involved behaved as if they had
the right to enter that house. There was no quiet atmosphere which should
surround such sad occasion but a rather matter of fact get it over with
impression I got. There was nothing in that empty pick up except for a
metal stretcher, no coffin or body bag. Within an hour of his death my
neighbour and friend was carted of in the back of a pickup with four other
“official” cars (wrecks) following.
I have never experienced such indifference to personal
feelings, such insensitiveness towards the sanctity of the dead. I will
remember this circus-like atmosphere for a long time.
As foreigners we are being told on a regular basis that
we are guests in this country and that we should behave as such. I fully
agree with this. My question is, is this the way one treats one’s guests
in their final hour? No time to lose, in the back of a pick up? Not
waiting for the family to arrive and give them time to say goodbye? Would
an ambulance from the local hospital not be a more dignified way to
transport him to the hospital?
I will make sure that in my last will a clause is added
that under no circumstance any of the Sawang Boriboon people can come
close to my dead body. Their behaviour is gross and totally unacceptable.
This was not a motoring accident or a Mafia shootout, it was a respected
person passing away in his home.
Andre M.
Sell the ship,
educate the kids
Editor;
According to your article “Comprehension in Thailand,
Bigotry or negative effect cost-cutting?”, Education Minister Somsak was
recently quoted as saying, “The country can’t be part of the IT era if
the population’s English skills are poor...” He goes on with saying
that they are planning to create a corps of “model English teachers”.
You continue by referring to the fact that you (Pattaya Mail) ran an
editorial on the subject. It does not surprise me that you at such an
early stage foresaw this problem. Is it not a little late for Minister
Somsak to create this corps? If my memory serves me right, English
language was introduced last year from grade one! And again if I’m
correct he introduced 12 years “compulsory” schooling the year before
(for those fortunately pupils who can afford it).
Minister Somsak does, however, not mention how he
intends to create this corps. One should expect that the Minister of
Education knew that the English Language is one of the world’s most
comprehensive languages. You don’t become fluent in the language by
attending a crash course! By my opinion you can only become a teacher of
The Queen’s English by attending a learning institute in England and
spend some time there. It goes without saying that qualified educators of
the language will take both time and money.
Here I think it’s correct of me to inform the readers
that I’m not English but I do have considerable education in English
from among others Cambridge University. I have also worked for quite some
time in English speaking countries. I know perfectly well that I will
never be totally fluent in the language and my accent will probably never
disappear. As a retired banker I have had many experiences. One, which is
related to this, was the time long ago when I was teaching young bankers a
subject called English for Bankers. In banking as in many other
professions like engineering, architects and so on, you will find that
they have a language of their own which you don’t learn at school. My
experience in connection with this was that it would have been impossible
to teach the students without also speaking their mother language! I’m
therefore surprised to read announcements for English native speaking
people as teacher of the language. It does not say what requirements are
demanded as to their teaching experience or whether it is a requirement
that they speak fluent Thai!
I recently read a very interesting article in Bangkok
Post that referred to the income situation in this county. It’s
estimated that nearly eight million people have an annual income of 1,166
baht per capita. These people live mostly in the Northeast. They are
generally farmers with big families. Has Minister Somsak considered how
many of these children will have a 12 years education? How can anybody
expect that these parents can be able to pay for two - three children on
this income when they have to pay for their school uniform, books and
writing material and the school lunch? How many years of education does he
think they are likely to get?
It’s all well and good that the Minister wants to
introduce proper education in the English language to this country’s
young population. However, would it not be a priority that as many as
possible got twelve years of education? When will it be a human right that
all children of Thailand have a constitutional right to this education and
for free!? It is a disgrace that many children, particularly in the
Northeast, have to do with only a roof over their head and have to sit on
the ground in lack of proper desks. I certainly would like to be a fly on
the wall when the government put together the country’s annual budget
because then I would know how they give priority, or more likely, lack of
priority to the education of this country’s future citizens. I wonder
how many schools could be built for the cost of this country’s disgrace,
the aircraft carrier this country never needed and probably will never
use! Is there no one who would buy this ship as soon as possible and
allocate the billions it would fetch to building and upgrading schools in
Thailand!
Allan
Death traps called
jet skis
Editor;
We have been coming to Pattaya with our husbands, John
& Brian for the last six years and have noted great improvements, in
particular the new paved walk way at Jomtien Beach, and when they are
eventually finished, the long awaited toilets. At least that is what we
are led to believe they are going to be.
But, when is something positive going to happen
regarding the regulations on those death traps called jet skis. There are
marker buoys placed in the sea to inform these idiots to keep out of the
bathing area, but still they ignore the signs and insist on weaving in and
out of the swimmers. Only a couple of days ago, one missed a swimmer by
about two meters. What on earth is wrong with the people? Do they enjoy
putting innocent people’s lives at risk? What are the Police doing about
it? Nothing as far as we can see.
May we suggest each time this happens both the rider
and the operator are fined, as they are the ones who should be responsible
for telling the rider to keep out of the marked area. At least one person
that we know of has been killed, how long before another meets the same
fate?
Brenda and May
England
Pen Pals wanted -
all sorts
Dear Sirs,
I have had a life long interest in Thailand and would
dearly love to correspond by mail with some people there. I can have the
letters translated, so that is not a problem. I am a 23 year old American
girl who is interested in getting to know all about Thailand, its history,
culture, and people. Letters are welcome from everyone in every walk of
life, men, women, old and young. We can learn about each other and about
each other’s nations!
Sandi Williams
9389 West Weaver Drive
Littleton, Colorado
80123-3168 USA
PAWS for the cause
Dear Sir,
Recently I read in Pattaya Mail of the efforts to
establish the Pattaya Animal Welfare Society (PAWS). This is a most worthy
cause that can help both the community and the animals of the area.
As a long time resident of Thailand, I have often seen
the many stray animals who wander the streets. For their well being and
more importantly the safety of the community these animals must be
provided a place where they may live their lives in safety. The precepts
of both Christianity and Buddhism provide animals the right to a life in
this world.
I urge all to join in the support this worthy effort!
George Goetzke,
Bangkok
Blasting the
Silence
Editor;While peaceful silence amid the sounds of the
waves and wind is an attribute to any resort community, visitors and
residents of Pattaya are forced to suffer with loud speakers mounted on
trucks that shatter the morning and afternoon calm.
As far back as I can remember, fruit and vegetable
trucks in Thailand have used this method to alert customers to their
arrival. This was normally done by low volume announcements and was not a
threat to ones tranquillity.
Now that practice has changed. There are obviously no
controls whatsoever in Pattaya, as over the last year it has been a
contest to see who can create the most noise pollution. This week there is
a new truck with six enormous loud speakers mounted on the top; it cruises
the streets with enough volume to shake the windows of your dwelling.
Often this occurs in the early morning. City Hall has to be fending
complaints over this practice, yet it continues.
City Mayor, wake up and call this to the attention of
the City Council and help promote a return to the more peaceful days in
Pattaya.
By the way, credit is due to the instigator of the new
street signs around the City. They are attractive and make getting around
much easier.
Gary Hacker
South Pattaya
21st Question
Editor;
I have thought about the 20 questions raised by Mr. Ian
Mac-Foggert and I would like to add question 21 for Mr. Ian Mac-Foggert:
“Why do you bother coming to Pattaya?”
Regards,
Philip Collins (Frequent Visitor To Thailand)
Manchester England
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