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by Leslie Warner Susanne Kornuh Larsen, a Physician, and her husband Finn Overgaard, an Engineer, from Denmark, are holidaying in Pattaya. The difference between them and other Danish tourists is that they are here after having adopted their third Thai baby, William aged two years, joining eight year old son Sebastian and six year old daughter Mathilde.
When Susanne and Finn discovered they could not have their own children, their first thoughts turned to Thailand. “We had both been here before and liked the country and the people,” said Susanne simply. It was hard to find out at first how to adopt a baby in Thailand so they contacted the Social Services in their own country, who then put them in touch with the three private Adoption Agencies. The Agency that they used had an affiliation with the Pattaya Orphanage in Thailand. That was the first step. The next step is a ‘home study’ carried out by the Social Services in Denmark, involving a search into the personal, medical and financial background of the prospective adopting couple. This takes approximately one year to ensure that the couple understands what they are doing. Each time a couple wants to adopt, the home study is done again. Susanne said, “The second time was quite straightforward, but first and third were more in-depth. It is unusual for a couple to adopt a third child so the Social Services in Denmark wanted to be sure we knew what we were doing. They played the waiting game with us, it took 4 years before we got William. Sebastian had only taken 18 months and Mathilde 2 1/2 years.” The couple cannot specify the age or the sex of the child and they do not know until the last minute what age boy or girl their child will be. The paperwork from Thailand that is sent to them gives as much detailed information about the child’s background as possible, including the birth certificate if there is one. There is also a medical report showing the child has been tested for HIV, Hepatitis and other transmittable diseases. Even then they do not see a picture of the child until they have agreed they will accept the child. Finn said, “I think you start to bond the minute you look at the picture; you think of this child as your own.”
They were advised to allow themselves a few days here beforehand and two weeks afterwards, to adjust, before taking their new family home. Susanne said, “When we went to collect both Sebastian and Mathilde from the Pattaya Orphanage, the atmosphere was as comfortable as visiting a family home and visitors are always welcome at any time. Sebastian was 9 months when we got him and an easy, contented child.” Was she nervous when handed her first baby? “No, I was so happy, I had waited so long,” Susanne said and laughed. Finn laughed too and added, “There was another Danish couple who were completing the paperwork at the same time as we were. When we went to collect our children together we both looked at each other’s child and thought, ‘I’m glad that one’s not mine.’ It’s always like this; you go to get Your child, not just A child.” As Fr. Raymond said that he did not want to give three children to one family, they were unable to adopt their third child from the Pattaya Orphanage so they were offered William from the Bangkok Orphanage. After receiving the child, the next step was to go to the Civil Welfare Department in Bangkok for an interview. Susanne said, “The first time was a bit nerve wracking because we didn’t know what to expect, but they talked to us about the child and asked us to try and keep the child informed of its Cultural Heritage. They are very helpful and take the adoption and the welfare of the child very seriously.” She continued, “The second time with Mathilde was easier because we knew what to expect. We take the other children to the interview with us. This time we promised to take them to Macdonald’s if they behaved!” Once back in Denmark the children settle quite easily into the community. “Of course they realize that they are different, they can see in a mirror they have dark eyes and dark hair, but they are not alone. There are other Thai children that have been adopted and Thai women married to Danish men that have children.” The ties with Thailand are also maintained with progress reports sent back to the Civil Welfare Department every 6 months. During this period the child is still registered as a Thai citizen but at the end of the 3 years, providing everything is OK with all parties involved, the child will become Danish. Susanne and Finn are not concerned that their children may forget that they are Thai. “They know that they were born in Thailand and they know their original Thai name but they think of themselves as Danish and that’s how they are brought up. When the children are older they will be encouraged to discover their Thai heritage if they want to.” Their advice to other couples wanting to adopt a Thai child is, “Only do it because you want to have a child of your own, not because you feel that you’re some kind of philanthropist.” And the down side to adoption? “Absolutely none,” laughed Finn, “Only the waiting time.”
Egbert Scherer and his wife Birgit, German citizens who spend a few months in Thailand every year, always enjoy organizing or taking part in charity events. For instance, they have been regularly sponsoring the Pattaya Orphanage, alone or sometimes with the help of their friends, for the past 12 years.
Last year the benevolent couple paid a visit to the Home for Street Kids, so this year they thought it might be a good idea to do something for them. Having their own apartment at the Jomtien Beach Condominium, Egbert and Birgit, before travelling to Pattaya, asked Managing Director Anupong and his wife Ms. Lin Shu Ling if they could involve them in their plans. The fast reply of MD Anupong was an emphatic ‘yes’. Father Peter Vichien, the director of the Street Kids Home was then contacted, and finally, on April 5th, more than 40 Street Kids were invited to a pool party at the Jomtien Beach Condominium. Already very excited, the kids were ready to leave at 8:00 a.m. - much before the scheduled pick-up time of 10 a.m., since outings like this are a rare opportunity for the children, especially when lots of hamburgers, ice cream, sweets, games and fun were waiting for them. Because of the kindness and thoughtfulness of Egbert and Birgit, some 40 less fortunate children had a new and exciting experience, complete with overall fulfilling enjoyment. For once they could experience the freedom to enjoy and participate in fun and games, having the opportunity to partake in fun activities like swimming and recreation. Egbert Scherer, asked by Pattaya Mail why he loves to organize these types of events at his own cost answered, “We always have such a great time in Pattaya. The people are friendly and helpful, so we just like to give them something in return. What better way is there to show our gratitude towards the Thai people than to help some unfortunate children of their society? My wife Birgit and I are always so happy when we see the smiles on the faces of children and we know that we did something good for them.” Well, Egbert and Birgit, you certainly did!
An Underwater Journey at St Andrew International School The students and staff at St. Andrews International School recently went on a journey to the depths of the ocean, through a spectacular slide show. Khun Kate and Khun Toom, two very experienced divers, have taken some amazing photographs of the life that can be found under the sea, in and around Burma, Malaysia, the Similan Islands and Thailand.
The Students were enthralled as they viewed the various types of sharks including the Whale Shark which is one of the biggest fish in the world. The Guitar Shark, which is half stingray and half shark, was quite an interesting animal as was the Leopard Shark with its display of spots. The huge Manta Rays captivated a lot of interest, with Chrissy, a Year One student, commenting that they looked like space ships floating through the sea. Another interesting sight was the Shrimp Goby, which was described by Sam as a fish with sunglasses on! The students were also able to see how different marine animals defend themselves against predators through camouflaging themselves with their environment. As they looked closely at slides, the children were able to identify a very poisonous fish called the Devil Fish, hidden away in the rocks. An octopus was also found sheltering in the coral, which disguised its presence from other hungry fish. The most spectacular night time fish was the Flashlight Fish. This fish swims around during the night and on moonless nights it is able to emit a light from a white spot on the side of its head. Thus it is called the Flashlight Fish. As a part of this experience the students also learnt how different marine animals depend on each other for survival, through symbiotic relationships. For example, the Goby Fish and shrimps pair up with each other to survive. As the shrimp are blind, they rely on the Goby fish to protect them and in return the shrimp help to dig holes that the Goby likes to live in. The most beautiful sight was definitely the tropical fish with their magnificent colours and patterns. The fluorescent breeds were very stunning and some of these even had spots on their fins, which served as false eyes to warn off predators. The staff and students would like to thank both Khun Kate and Khun Toom for coming to St. Andrews International School, to share with us their interesting and educational slide show.
BCCT Mission to Cambodia 10-12th May 2000 The BCCT is delighted to announce it’s first overseas mission for some years. BCCT will be visiting Phnom Penh from 10-12th May to coincide with the Cambodia Investment Seminar 2000 being organised by BCCT member Dataconsult Co., Ltd. The draft programme for the mission and conference follows. However, the cost per person of participation (inclusive of business class return airfare on THAI, two nights accommodation at Le Royal Hotel with breakfast, conference fee, round trip transfers, contribution to cost of reception and VAT) is BHT 37,000. Departure flight from Bangkok - 10/5 - TG698 15.00 (arrives Phnom Penh at 16.15). Return flight from Phnom Penh - 12/5 - TG699 17.00 (arrives Bangkok at 18.15). There is a reduction of Bht 7,500 should you not wish to join the conference. There are further reductions of Bht 2,500 for economy class air travel and Bht 6,700 for twin share accommodation. Please indicate your participation by notifying Greg Watkins at the BCCT office and forwarding a cheque (payable to the ‘British Chamber of Commerce’) for the appropriate sum as soon as possible. Our travel agents (DTC Travel) are also offering a package to visit Angkor Wat over the weekend of 13th & 14th May. Please contact Tom Bishop at DTC direct to arrange this (e-mail: <[email protected]>, tel: 258 1339, fax: 663 5695). Mission Programme Wednesday 10th May 16.15 Arrival on flight TG698 from Bangkok, transfer to Hotel Le Royal Evening Reception/networking with British Business Association of Cambodia Thursday 11th May Morning Mission meetings 12.00 Inaugural Lunch (Organisers and sponsors) at Hotel Le Royal 13.00 H.E. Cham Prasidh, Minister of Commerce 13.30 “Cambodia 2000 Political and Economic Outlook” - Dr. Kao Kim Hourn, Executive Director, Cambodian Institute for Cooperation and Peace, H.E. Aun Porn Moniroth, Economic Advisor to H.E. the Prime Minister, Mr. Urooj Malik, Representative of Asian Development Bank 14.30 Break with coffee and refreshments 15.00 “Cambodia 2000 Business investment and the rule of law” - H.E. Sok Chenda Sophea, Secretary General Council for the Development of Cambodia, H.E. Sok Siphana, Secretary of State, Ministry of Commerce, Mr. Dominique Peterhans, General Manager, Nestle Cambodia, Chairman, International Business Club 16.15 Break with coffee and refreshments 16.30 Cambodia Investment 2000 - Keynote address: H.E. Samdech Hun Sen, Prime Minister of Cambodia 18.30 Break 19.00 Gala Dinner 20.30 Cultural Presentation 21.00 End of day’s proceedings Friday 12th May 8.00 Business Roundtable Opening Address: H.R.H. Samdech Krom Preah Norodom Ranariddh, Chairman of the National Assembly “Cambodia’s national reconciliation and stability: basis for a new era of development and international cooperation” 8.30 “Doing Business in the Cambodia of today and tomorrow” (US ASEAN Business Council, Cambodian and international business representatives) 9.30 Keynote Address: “The role of international investment, aid and technical assistance for the development of Cambodia” - H.E. Kent Wiedemann, Ambassador of the United States to the Kingdom of Cambodia 10.00 Coffee break 10.30 Sectoral Workshops series I: Infrastructure, Banking, Finance and Insurance, Trade, Distribution and Consumer affairs, Tourism 12.00 Lunch 13.00 Sectoral workshops series II: Manufacturing and export, Agri-business, Energy, Oil and Gas, Law, Accounting and good governance 14.30 Coffee break 15.00 Conclusion Session: Cambodia Investment 2000 Key findings and next steps (sponsors, workshop co - chairs) 15.30 Closing Address: H.E. Keat Chhon, Senior Minister for Economy and Finance, Deputy Chairman of Council for the Development of Cambodia 16.00 Close of conference/Return to Bangkok or option to stay in Cambodia over the weekend.
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