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The Saga of Miss Teacher Froggy

Windsor Whitewashed

The Camillian center - a cry for help

The Saga of Miss Teacher Froggy

by Fr. Joe Maier

The slum kids in her kindergarten class call her Miss Teacher Froggy - Kru Kee-it and every new school year she tries to get them to call her by her title and given name - three beautiful syllables in Thai, but her name sticks to the roof of your mouth and the kids forget. So Miss Teacher Froggy it is. Kru Kee-it. Kru is Thai for teacher and Kee-it is the word for the tiny frog that makes such a big noise. From the time she was a little kid herself, her mom called her Froggy, and now the kids do the same.

It’s a funny name to call a hero. And she is that. Miss Teacher Froggy is one of our true heroes of the Klong Toey slum. She grew up in the slaughterhouse pad of the slum, near where they use to butcher the cattle and water buffalo, alongside the stinky Prakanong Canal. And she was so cross-eyed, she’d get a kink in her neck trying to look at something, or even trying to read. She had a hard time at school.

She was their only child, but her parents didn’t have money for an eye operation. Then when she was eight - the minimum age for this surgery - a generous doctor uptown on Ratachtaewee Road did it for free. Even paid for her mom’s bus fare from the Slaughterhouse and back, plus meals so mom could be with daughter Froggy for the two days she had to keep a patch over her eye.

The operation worked. Today, she sees straight on, 20-20 vision. She doesn’t even need glasses. No one remembers any more that she used to be Cross-eyed Froggy. And now she is a hero.

I don’t mean she’s the girl Rambo type. She’s pretty and svelte, her eyes dance and to her kids she’s Wendy and Tinker Bell, plus Kanga and Pooh and Tigger, with Hermione from Harry Potter blended in. She’s never owned designer jeans and mom bought her first pair of shoes the day she went off crying, as we all did, to her first day of school. In other words, she’s one of the guys. From the neighborhood.

Oh, but she was a girl Rambo once, a year ago this month, when the slaughterhouse had its Meningococal Meningitis scare. Heavy-duty industrial type words for a nasty disease that attacks the brain and the spinal cord. And it can kill you. Three kids in the slum got sick, and had lots of bleeding sores. Five-year-old kids all bandaged up looking like war causalities. The youngest, in Miss Teacher Froggy’s class, was in the hospital for more than a month. Two months later his mom was still changing his bandages daily.

It can start with rat urine in the water, in the garbage. Two five-year-olds in hospital came from houses at different ends of the slaughterhouse, so we knew it wasn’t isolated in one area. The Public Health Department folks took 40 sputum samples and seven more kids tested positive, but had no symptoms. The Health Officials visited our kindergarten and they walked the length of the slum wearing masks and white hospital coats. Not quite as scary as the Ebola movies, but almost.

The virus was in the stagnant water. Maybe also in some of the kids’ houses. Many of the toilet and bathing areas had no light, were dark and dank. Miss Teacher Froggy led the brigade. She went from house to house telling everyone: neighbors, friends, the people she’d known since she was a child. She was everywhere, organizing the entire neighborhood. Up to her knees, pitching garbage out of the most hazardous waste piles. Six huge, smelly truckloads in two days. Everyone helped, more than 400 of us in all. We all ate the antidote medicine and no one else got sick. We put two hundred clear plastic panels in one hundred houses, thus drying out a hundred bathrooms. The slum was a cleaner place. The health folks said they’d never seen a community pull together like that.

Finally, the scare died down. The children who were ill got better. When the school re-opened Miss Teacher Froggy returned to her classroom. Now she was just an everyday sort of hero. Maybe the most important type. Always there when kids are frightened. Some of them run to her house at night when they wake up-alone, afraid, crying - when their moms are at work.

They stand outside her door and cry, and she lets them in to steep with her old teddy bear till their moms come home at dawn. If they’re really scared, as they often are, she tucks a blanket around them, snuggly and warm, and holds them until they return to sleep.

Come school time, she’s strict. There is order in her class. Knuckles get rapped. To graduate from Miss Teacher Froggy’s second year kindergarten class is to win a badge of honor. She wants the kids to stay in school, and some do, so that maybe they’ll be able to avoid doing the stuff their moms do, to pay for food and shelter and school uniforms.

These kids are easy marks, you see. More vulnerable than you and me. They’re street wise and tough in some ways, but also so starved for affection and love, they’ll believe just about anyone who says something nice to them.

In this, they’re really innocent and totally open to predators, even when they grow up, even when they’re slum heroes. Hit them and they bruise, cut them and they bleed, and it’s easy to break their hearts. It happened to Miss Teacher Froggy.

She met a young man from uptown with a sweet mouth and as soon as she got pregnant, you know who was never heard from again. During her pregnancy she taught during the week and on weekends washed squid for 145 baht a day, but the wash water ate away the skin on her hands. So she switched to washing pig guts on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday nights with the women of the slaughterhouse as the men butchered the pork. This paid 200 baht a night.

Now she has a daughter, the glory of her life. And she still comes to the kindergarten every day, to teach some of the children of her lifelong friends. There’s continuity in the slums, you see. It isn’t just transients passing through. And Miss Teacher Froggy is a slum kid, now 24 years old, who stayed in the slum and became a teacher and at the start of every session, she still tries to get her students to call her by her title and her given name, and it never works. Miss Teacher Froggy - Kru Kee-it is it. So that is a kind of continuity, too. And the kids run up in the slum and give her a hug and shout out, “Hello Miss Teacher Froggy.” If you were five, wouldn’t you?

Fr. Joe is with the Human Development Foundation in Klong Toey, Bangkok. School starts in late May, and if you would like to help buy some school clothes and shoes, please feel free to send money to the foundation address below. The kids truly need our help.

Human Development Foundation

3757-15 Rama 4 Road, Phrakanong, Klong Toey, Bangkok 10110

email: www.inet.co.th/org/hdc
web site: www.hdc-th.org 

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Windsor Whitewashed

A record unbroken run of victories stretching back to 1996 was shattered this week as the mighty Windsor House lost to main rivals Stuart in the inter-house sports day at the International School of Pattaya.

Steady as she goes... Min Yung speeds along with her egg and spoon

Despite dominating the field events Windsor fared badly at both basketball and football with Stuart taking the honours in both, whilst Tudor, under the guidance of Mr. Simon, played well in the baseball competition fending off a very strong Stuart team.

All age ranges were represented in the full day of sports with the youngest students taking part in water, egg and spoon races as well as joining the senior students for the relay race.

Andrew, Jeng and Toby - masters of the basketball court

It was a tightly fought contest throughout the day with Stuart and Windsor tied at 67 points each as they entered the final football competition.

A thrilling series of matches led to the final upset with a victorious Stuart finally winning by a clear six points.

Mr Trevor Jones, the school’s head of Physical Education, acted as both referee and score keeper for the day as well as organising the whole event.

We are the champions!

Headmaster Mr Graham Meredith presented the Principal’s Trophy to House Captain Olivia Lambert who proudly accepted it on behalf of the Stuart team before thanking her Housemasters, Mr. Chris and Ms. Sheila, for their support.

Windsor’s Housemaster Mr. Rob, interviewed at his garden, sportingly congratulated the winners saying that winning was not everything and he looked forward to welcoming his trophy home at the next inter-house games.

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The Camillian center - a cry for help

Joint event: For all interested
Where: At the Camillian Center
When: Thursday 24.05 at 10 a.m.
Host: Father Giovanni and the Rayong Ladies Circle welfare committee

We have all on our way to Rayong driven past the Camillian Center. But how many of us know who lives there? Two women from the welfare committee decided to go and find the answer to this question.

We were met by the director of the center Father Giovanni. He started the center in January 1996, because of the great need for a place for people with HIV/AIDS in Rayong.

Rayong is the province in the eastern region of Thailand with the highest number of AIDS patients and people having HIV, and ranks the third of the country. 3,997 have AIDS and 1,047 have died from 1984 to 2000.

At the moment 35 men, 18 women and 20 children are living in the Camillian center. They all need special antiretroviral medicine, but the center has chosen to try to raise the money for the 13 children so that they can receive the very expensive medicine. And the medicine is expensive. Each child needs 15,000 baht per month.

These children are the victims of HIV infection. They are orphans, because their mothers and fathers have died of AIDS. Some of their relatives cannot take care of them, while many others are reluctant or refuse to take care of them. They lack the warmth and love from their natural families and are all alone. In top of that they are all weak because they are HIV positive. They need help to prolong their lives. With the medicine, their lives can be prolonged by 10-15 years. In those 10-15 years they can enjoy a normal life. They can go to school inside and outside the center. They can play and they can live like family inside the center. The children will not be cured, but they will have a life the quality. They need your help.

Naan is 6 years old. Her parents worked as carpenters in Bangkok. After Naan was born her parents took her to her grandparents to take care of her. When she was 3 years old her parents came back to stay in the house, but were sick all the time. Later her father died, and her mother committed suicide not long afterwards. This made the neighbors curious and they told others that her father had died of AIDS. No one wanted to come anywhere near her as they were scared and treated her despicably, including her grandparents. So she was left alone, with her body full of sores, especially on her head. Her grandparents didn’t pay any attention to, or take care of her for some time. Naan had no idea what AIDS was as she was so young, but the only family that she knew, her grandparents, rejected her. How could they do that to her? (Story taken from the calendar “Women, children and AIDS 2001)

How can we help these children? We can do fundraising, but what would really help was if many of us started to sponsor a child with a regular amount every month. Together the community could sponsor maybe one or two children. How many is up to us. If you are interested please don’t hesitate e-mail me. I have all the information and will gladly share it with you.

Hope to see many of you there.

Helle Rants้n, welfare coordinator, e-mail: [email protected]

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