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Malcolm Boden
Malcolm Boden, the quiet, twinkling blue eyed senior
consultant at Royal Heritage Asset Management is a man who has only had
two careers - one in the British Army and the other in financial services,
yet he comes across as a very well rounded person with many years of
diverse experiences. It is only after talking and delving that you find
out just how diverse.
Malcolm
was born in Leicester in the UK, and lived in the rough end of town.
“You had to beware when you walked out the door.” He was the fourth
child in a family of seven, and typically of multi children households,
the elder children take on some of the responsibilities of rearing.
Malcolm speaks with fondness and pride of his elder sister who eventually
became an international hockey player and Captain of the Great Britain
Handball Team and who once stood up for her young brother knocking the
local bully flat. “She was a bloody good footballer as well,” he said.
Some girl!
He describes himself as having been a bit of a rogue at
school and when he was 16 years old, left home and joined the British
Army. “When you live in a big family and you’re sharing a bed, it’s
time to get out.”
The army gave him a bed all for himself and he was so
grateful he stayed with them for the next 19 years! The life suited him;
he could indulge himself in sports, and took on the training to be an
instructor in the transport area. Football was one his passions and he was
good enough to be a representative player for the British Army team, which
competed against many of the well known FA Cup sides. Their best result
with Malcolm in the squad was a draw against Southampton.
It was also while in the army that he met and married
his spouse Christina, now in their 22nd year of marriage. He had another
significant event happen to him in his early years in the army as well -
he found out he was a diabetic. However, he refused to let this change his
lifestyle, despite having to have daily injections, being a firm believer
in “Don’t let a disability stop you doing what you want to do.”
The army continued to train Malcolm and he progressed
to become a trainer for successive groups of trainers below him. He did
two tours of duty in Northern Ireland in 1977 and 1985, and survived both.
But after 19 years in the service, with the British Army scaling down,
Malcolm accepted the army’s offer of early retirement. “I became a
pensioner aged 35,” he laughed at the thought of it all.
The next career beckoned. He joined a financial
services company, but admitted, “I didn’t even know what they did!”
However, he picked it up fast, and within his first full year in the
financial services field he came 5th in the UK and was promoted into
management, progressing through to become a business manager with the
South Coast of England as his area of responsibility.
But the financial services arena was not the only side
to Malcolm Boden. Malcolm is a dyed-in-the-wool traveller. In his
holidays, he would go overseas to escape the wet and chills of the UK. At
the time of interview he thought that he had visited forty two different
countries, many of them several times. However, he is not the “exotic
beach resort where you lie back and do nothing” type of traveller - he
likes places of interest, visiting Egypt three times for example. It was
also during these annual holiday sojourns that Malcolm and Christina first
discovered Thailand.
Despite having settled in Dorset, complete with a home
for himself and Christina, and his secure job, Malcolm had always
harboured a dream of living and working abroad - the next step of
progression after his many overseas holiday trips. A position became
available in Singapore and Malcolm went for it - to be given a post in
Vienna instead! However, this was not the warm tropics - Vienna was more
like Dorset and when he met Martin McNicholas of Royal Heritage Asset
Management when he and Christina were over here on holidays he asked if
there were any positions going in Thailand. The rest, as they say, is
history.
Malcolm has fitted into the Pattaya scene very well.
The weather, the friendliness of the people and the inexpensive cost of
living (especially compared with England) has made Thailand very easy to
take. He has become a charity worker and one of the executive committee
for the newly formed UK Club, and has also taken up lawn bowls (how
English can you get)! The avid sportsman is still interested, but the more
violent forms are out. “My knee took too much stick when I was
younger,” he said somewhat ruefully.
Success for Malcolm is, “To have a reasonable
lifestyle to enable me to look after my family and enjoy myself.” He
admits to having got there, according to his own definition. “I’ve got
a nice house and a bit of money and I’m happy with my life.”
When I asked him about advice for youngsters following
in his footsteps he replied, “I would advise anyone to join the army.
You grow up quickly and learn to take care of yourself.” He did add the
rider, “Get a good education first,” being a strong advocate of
education for all. In fact his only regret in discussing his life to date
was, “The only thing I would change would be to stay on a bit longer at
school.”
Malcolm Boden relishes his job here. “We help people
plan for the future - we really help people.” We believe you, Malcolm,
we really do!
Pattaya Inquisition:
Ken Sly
by the Pattaya Interrogator
Ken Sly is the current Principal of Garden
International School. A New Zealander, he was brought up on a farm in New
Zealand, went to boarding school at an early age (hated every minute of
it) and then to Massey University where he graduated with a BA in
Agricultural Economics, and a Cert Vet Sci. In 1972 Ken represented New
Zealand as a swimmer. His other sporting achievement was to be number 1
rugby referee in Spain, which gave him time on the International panel. He
has lived in England, France and immediately prior to coming to Thailand
was living and working in Spain.
PI: How are you and the world getting along?
KS: About the same. The world gets larger day by
day – a result of too much sex, and too many people. I get larger day by
day – a result of too much food and too many beers.
PI: How long have you known Pattaya?
KS: When I got my present job, I hadn’t even
heard of Pattaya. Na๏ve aye? So you can imagine my astonishment when
I arrived here three years ago. Living further south in Ban Chang, I
actually don’t know Pattaya all that well (except for Shenanigans of
course).
PI: Where is your spiritual home?
KS: I’ve lived in five different countries, and
hold dual nationality. The good test comes when the rugby is on – who
you root for is a bit revealing, especially if two of “my” countries
are playing one another. And I’m afraid in my case it’s always the All
Blacks who get the cheers.
PI: What CD are you most proud of in your
collection?
KS: “Rock Follies” with Judy Covington and Rula
Lenska. It’s now a collector’s item, so few were made, but I’ve got
one, and I’m not lending it to anybody!
PI: How are you at cooking for yourself?
KS: I’m a pretty dab hand in the kitchen. When I
have guests to dinner I’m in my element – real cordon bleau stuff.
Trouble is I’m so messy in the kitchen, the maid always has an
apoplectic fit when she comes in the next morning.
PI: Are you happy in your career?
KS: Would you be happy faced with several hundred
teenagers every day who have just a. broken up with their boy/girlfriend,
b. partied too much over the weekend, c. had their pet dog run over, or,
d. are seething with aggressive hormones? I thought not. But they are
still nice, and I do enjoy working with them very much. It’s the adults
I work with who have just (a) had a row with their husband/wife, (b)
partied too much over the weekend, (c) had their mother-in-law to stay,
or, (d) are going through a mid-life crisis who are more trying.
PI: If you had to take over somebody else’s life,
who would you pick?
KS: Saint Peter – and then I could make the final
decision at ‘The Gate’ on all those people who have been making
decisions about my life for the past many years. Pay back time would be
sweet!
PI: What are you like in the bathroom?
KS: Not too happy – there are mirrors in the
bathroom that constantly remind me that I am well out of shape, and
going bald. It’s definitely not a room to dally in.
PI: What is it about you that is the most
controversial?
KS: My continued refusal to referee regularly for
the Pattaya Panthers. (The Pattaya Panties haven’t asked me.)
PI: When was the last time you cried at a movie?
KS: Listen, I’m the world’s worst crier at
movies – anything which is an emotional tear-jerker is bound to get me
going.
PI: If you could have a dinner party with 4 people
from the present or the past who would you invite?
KS: Like all men, I want Julia Roberts there.
Though I’m not sure how she would get on with Mother Theresa, one of my
heroes (whose birthday was on the same day as mine). Judy Covington
(singer), and just to even up the party a bit, Hans van Damme (Dutch
swimmer from the 70’s) for his ability to open the wine by slicing the
neck of the bottle off with a sharp kitchen knife!
PI: Where are you coming from and where are you
going?
KS: I was brought up as a good country lad, on a
farm. Nice law abiding citizens all, who got on with life and took the
good with the bad. Boringly conservative, and at peace with the world. Did
you know that most countries won’t imprison anyone over 90 years of age?
So where am I going? I’m waiting until I’m 90, and then I’m going to
do all the things I would love to do, but daren’t – like rob a bank,
steal a Mercedes (top of the range) and wildly joy-ride, gamble with other
peoples money, and other things I haven’t thought of yet!
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