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Career Interviews for Year 11s at GIS
Handling the Thris Culture Kid Syndrome by Katherine Iglinski It is that time of year: exams are almost over, summer plans are made, and that nostalgic feeling comes of another year gone by. All that remains is that hair raising question of what do I do now? You have waited all four years of your high school career to become the oldest one on campus and now that it is over you have got to prepare yourself to start the process all over again as a freshmen, only this time with a lot more freedom. You are going to university, and just like every other first year university student you have to deal with a hysterical mother worrying about her baby being all alone, the fear of getting the roommate from hell who thinks that everything you own is fair game, and of course doing your own laundry (who knew “reds” and “whites” should not go into the same load of laundry?) However, growing up overseas gives you an additional concern... how will you adapt to moving back home? Does a life with no maids, no 30-degree weather all year round, and no spicy Thai food actually exist? Amazingly enough yes, but it takes some getting used to. So here are a few helpful hints to make that transition from tropical high school life to parentless university living. Chances are your classes are no longer going to be as small and intimate as they are now. Be ready for this, and do not become intimidated by the large classes. Remember, everyone else in there is just like you; they are all in their first year and are just as lost and confused as you feel. Get involved. University is meant to be the best years of your life, so have a little bit of school pride and find that sport that you like or committee you want to join. Remember, there are no parents or teachers to give you that gentle nudge you may have had in high school. Be organized; know where your classes are earlier than 5 minutes before you are supposed to be there. University can be a zoo the first few weeks of class with everyone running around trying to find where they are going, so you will feel a lot more relaxed if you know where you are going beforehand. If you are going somewhere cold be prepared for this, be very prepared. The winter blues are not just a fallacy people dream up, they actually happen, so try to stay active in the winter by going to the gym or whatever else you need to do to keep yourself from feeling too cagey. Have an answer ready when people ask you, “Where are you from?” The question will arise a lot during the first few weeks and it is a good idea to decide how you want to answer this. Be prepared to answer a lot about Thailand, but use your best judgement on this. For those who really seem interested spend as much time as you want telling them about this tropical paradise, but for those who seem to just be asking to be polite, have a simple answer in mind. Remember, it may be a little more difficult for them to relate to your stories of Thailand if they have never been here, or cannot even point it out on a map. Try not to become impatient with people when they do not understand what living overseas is like. The idea is a little more complicated for people than you would think. So there you have it, a simple guide to handling the third culture kid syndrome. It is a life that few have experienced, but all that have cherish. University is a big step, but trust this second year university survivor, if you know how to do your laundry you are well ahead of the game.
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