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COLUMNS
HEADLINES [click on headline to view story]:

Family Money

Snap Shots

Modern Medicine

Women's World

Heart to Heart with Hillary

A Slice of Thai History

Bits ‘n’ Bobs

Animal Crackers

Personal Directions

Social Commentary by Khai Khem

Roll over Rover

The Message In The Moon

PC Basics

Family Money: Investment styles

By Leslie Wright,
Managing director of Westminster Portfolio Services (Thailand) Ltd.

Financial advisevs and their clients often show more interest in seemingly tangible matters, such as past performance figures, and the likely direction of the markets, than a manager’s investment philosophy.

However, it may come as a surprise that many investment professionals regard a fund management group’s investment philosophy as more important than past performance.

Like an individual’s philosophy, a fund or portfolio manager’s investment philosophy can give an insight into how he will handle future events. The debate about the suitability of a particular investment management style has gone on for years and will no doubt continue.

An investment philosophy should remain consistent over time. It should point to empirical evidence of success over the medium and long term, be easily applicable to all markets, and filter through to everyday investment practices. Investment style can basically be divided into two camps: value and growth.

Value versus growth investment

The value investor aims to buy shares the virtues of which he or she believes the market has not fully appreciated, in the belief that at some point the market will recognise the error of its ways. A likely consequence is that the value manager buys into low-rated, higher yielding sectors.

At the opposite end of the style spectrum, growth investors are more interested in the path of future profits than the bottom line that a company is delivering.

The growth investor’s theory is that the way to make money is through share price rises that come from companies achieving market-beating and above consensus earnings’ growth. For the growth investor, dividend income is generally irrelevant: growth companies will usually need to retain their profits to fuel future growth.

Whereas value investors often hold old economy stocks, operating in mature businesses, growth investors tend to concentrate on new economy companies, looking for the next sectoral growth theme. Managers at each end of the spectrum need to assess at which point assets that meet the criteria of their preferred style become unattractive.

Many value stocks are cheap for a good reason: they exist in a mature business and have little scope to increase revenue through volume growth while intense competition prevents price rises. Productivity increases and mergers & acquisitions activity appear to be their only saviours and hence, without this major corporate surgery, they will become value traps - that is, cheap but staying cheap.

Growth investors need to beware paying excess prices (known as Equity Risk Premium, or ‘ERP’ for short) for future earnings growth that ultimately disappoints. Growth stocks that ride a wave of euphoria can become torpedoes (valued at levels that overestimate their future earnings prospects) and crash once the market recognises this.

Until recently, value investors have been losing out to their growth counterparts. The peak time for value investing was in the first half of the 1990s, as falling interest rates raised the value of future dividend income.

The balance moved firmly in favour of growth investors from 1998 until early 2000 when the technology, media and telecoms (‘TMT’) boom ran its course. Although any graph reflecting this growth is inevitably weighted towards the US, which accounts for about half the total global market capitalisation, the pattern was repeated throughout the world.

Growth investors were happy to buy into companies with high valuation multiples paying little or no dividends. For them, the promise lay in the earnings that would be achieved once the cash burn period of marketing and setting up was over.

Investment managers that adopted the value approach could only shake their heads at the dizzy valuations given to companies with no track record and miniscule revenues - the dot.com firms being the prime suspects - and you’ll forgive my mentioning that I wrote disparagingly about these in March 2000, shortly before the bubble burst.

The disbelievers lost over-enthusiastic clients, and by the time the TMT bubble burst there were few who would willingly nail their colours to the value mast. The euphoria of greed had taken over - just as the panic of fear since then has reversed the situation.

Since March 2000, growth style has suffered a setback. The earnings growth hoped for from TMT evaporated with a slowing world economy, higher short-term interest rates and hugely expensive 3G telecom licences. The previously highly-favoured ‘themes’ of TMT have performed especially poorly over the past two years.

Momentum style

The two-year flurry of growth between 1998 and 2000 and the subsequent downslide, led to another style of investment being adopted by some investment managers and day traders.

As its name suggests, the momentum style of investment management means going with the flow: if a share is rising rapidly, then it is bought - and in the TMT sectors there were plenty of rising stocks and initial public offerings (‘IPOs’) for momentum investors to jump aboard.

But the danger of this style is it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy if too many investors jump on the bandwagon. That is what happened in spring 2000. Catching that turn is the key to making momentum investment work - no matter whether the market has risen too high or fallen too low.

The rapid see-saw between growth and value as the best approach underlines the fact that no single polarised investment style is right all the time.

This does not mean that sticking to one investment style will put an investment manager out of business. A number of pure value managers have managed to retain more clients than their disappointing performance suggested because the clients like their calm & consistent approach. A single style approach does have the appeal of consistency; but the same argument could be applied to a stopped clock, which will always be right at some point in the day.

The continued volatility and uncertainty that we’re seeing in the markets - with predictions of recovery one week followed by predictions of disaster the next - suggests that a pragmatic mixture of growth and value may offer the best alternative.

This trick seeks to optimise the upside and minimise the downside, with a balance between value and growth.

It’s not an easy trick to work, but theoretically, while this approach would miss the peaks of each style, it should also avoid the worst of the troughs and ultimately lead to greater stability of returns. Focusing on unrecognised growth is often referred to as “growth at the right price” (GARP) and allows the manager to take advantage of trend shifts as they occur.

When looking for an investment manager, it is always worth remembering that no matter what style your investment manager adopts, he doesn’t have a crystal ball or a magic wand. Performing miracles is the province of the Vatican, not investment managers.


Snap Shot: Photographing houses and buildings

by Harry Flashman

We have all taken snaps of houses from time to time. Your own new house, “special” noteworthy houses or even stately homes seen on vacation. Or even your own condominium block when you want to sell. Unfortunately, the shot as returned from the film processor is many times not representative of the way you saw the house in your recollection.

So what went wrong? In most instances it has been brought about by unfortunate lens choices, or indiscriminate “zooming” to try and get the building in. The commonest problem is what we call the “Falling Over Backwards” look. The next most common problem is the “Building Falling Over Sideways”. One is easy to fix, the other is not.

When we try to get a whole house into the viewfinder, we generally use a wide angle lens to fit it all in. This is where we come unstuck. The wide angle setting exaggerates the perspective of the house and makes it look as if it is falling over backwards.

To counteract this is not easy. The first thing to do is to try to elevate the position you are taking the shot from. The higher up you get, the less the perspective effect shows. In fact, if you have to take a 20 storey skyscraper, go across the street and climb to the 10th floor of the one opposite and shoot from there. The halfway up point will cancel out the extreme perspective.

If you cannot get an elevated viewpoint, then try to use the “standard” or even telephoto lenses and step backwards to get the entire house back inside the viewfinder frame. These lenses do not exaggerate perspective like the wide angles do.

Now, the falling sideways look is simply bad frame-up by the photographer. It is very important to make sure the sides of the house are parallel with the sides of the viewfinder before you pop the shutter. Most people remember to get the horizon parallel with the bottom of the finder, but forget to look at the sides. You have been warned! Failure to check this results in a snapshot where the house looks like it is the victim of acute subsidence.

Photographing Interiors

Interiors are not easy, and even the pros will shudder when asked to do some interior shots. The biggest problem is lighting. If the curtains are not drawn there is a source of extreme brightness in the picture. This will generally confuse the magic eye in the camera and you will either get a “normal” window with very dark foreground, or a completely white “blown out” window with “fogging” of the picture.

One way to get over this is to draw some light drapes across the windows to cut down the brightness. The other way is to set the camera’s exposure readings for the view from the window, then fill in the front of the room with electronic flash.

This is called “balancing” the flash output, and if you bounce the flash off the ceiling you will get a very natural, bright and airy look to the interior shots.

Of course, you again have to be aware of the exaggerated perspective and make sure the camera is held straight, and shoot from around halfway between floor and ceiling, otherwise the walls look as if they are falling over, or the builder used his thumb rather than a plumb bob. Just really concentrate on getting the edges to line up with walls and window frames and you will get a very pleasing result. Neglect this and your pictures will look as if they were taken in a crazy house!

(Harry Flashman is away, so we have repeated and brought up to date one of his previous columns from three years ago.)


Modern Medicine: An uplifting experience

by Dr Iain Corness, Consultant

The buzzwords today are Erectile Dysfunction, often contracted to the simple acronym ED. This is a common condition in males as they get older, with numbers in the scientific literature being 25% of men over 55 are unable to maintain a good enough erection to successfully carry out horizontal folk dancing (or as we in the medical profession would say, coitus). This gentlemen, is a frightening thought and enough to make even the hardest of us wither at the prospect.

So is there an upside to this downside problem? Yes, there is. Medicine rose to the occasion and the “soft on” can now be a thing of the past.

We began with a chemical called Alprostadil. This stuff certainly did the business, but it was always difficult to administer and the correct dose was hard to work out. It was injected into the side of Willy the Wonder Wand and was very quick to work. The initial dose had to be done in the surgery to try and gage the effect and to show the patient how to inject himself with a very fine needle. I can remember instructing the practice nurse to stop saying, before the injection, “It’s just a little prick,” as this could be misconstrued by some patients.

The following is true - I had commenced one patient on Alprostadil and was a little unsure of the optimum dosage for him. I asked him to ring me the next morning and tell me how he had got on. “Went good, Doc, but I think we should cut the dose.” “Why?” I asked. “Doc, this morning they could have picked me up by the legs and ploughed the front garden with me!” he replied. This is a condition called “Priapism” and is not the answer to every young man’s dream - it can be painful and dangerous.

However, the next major uplifting moment in the annals of bedroom history was the release of Viagra. This drug works totally differently from Alprostadil. It is not, as many thought, a drug that will give you an instant erection. It acts slowly and centrally on the brain, resulting in a situation that when you are sexually aroused, Willy will wake as well and work! When the stimulation ceases, Willy goes back to his normal flaccid self, or as the ladies of South Pattaya would say, “Him go sreep now.”

The drawbacks are that you should take Viagra around one hour before you think you will need it, and there are certain medications that do not go well with it, notably the nitrate drugs used for certain heart conditions, or the amyl nitrates used by some of the drug sniffers. However, Viagra does last around 12 hours in the system, so you are capable of more repeat performances than the UBC mid day movies.

Of course, the other drug companies have not been hanging around either, and Uprima has come on the scene. This acts differently from Viagra, and can even be used in conjunction with it. It is absorbed from under the tongue so it works quicker, and I believe that its effects last longer in the body too - but like Viagra, it needs sexual stimulation to work.

These new drugs do have a downside, though. Cost. But who can put a price on uplifting experiences?


Women’s World: A Queen among women Part II

by Lesley Warner

On that April day in 1947 there were millions who were willing to join in and share it. They were comforted to know that their King and Queen had never left them for a safe haven, but stayed with them to live through the perils of war. The people appreciated their monarchs’ devotion and were touched by young Elizabeth’s vow to dedicate her life to them. Willingly, they pledged their support to her. Who would have guessed someone so young could make such a solemn vow and keep it for over fifty years. We tend to think of her as an institution rather than a human being. Where did she find the strength to go on even when it seemed that so many turned against her after the death of Diana?

On November 20, 1947, Princess Elizabeth married Lieutenant Philip Mountbatten, now His Royal Highness Prince Philip Duke of Edinburgh.

Elizabeth received the news of her father’s death and her own accession to the throne while touring Kenya. She returned to England as Queen. Though she looked somber, she never broke down in public. She was only 26 and knew her life would never again be her own.

Her Majesty’s Coronation took place in Westminster Abbey on 2 June 1953.

The Queen does not have many of the powers or titles of her ancestors, but she does retain her power to appoint a prime minister, as well as her power to choose whether or not to grant dissolution of Parliament.

As Head of State, the Queen maintains close contact with the prime minister, with whom she has a weekly audience when she is in London and with other ministers of the crown. She sees all Cabinet papers and the records of Cabinet and Cabinet Committee meetings. She receives important Foreign Office telegrams and a daily summary of events in Parliament.

The Queen has many homes: Buckingham Palace in London, England, Windsor Castle in Berkshire, England and the Palace of Holyroodhouse in Edinburgh, Scotland are her
official residences. She also
has private residences: Sand- ringham in Norfolk, England and Balmoral Castle in Aberde enshire, Scotland.

It may sound like she has a castle for every season, a large salary from the civil list and access to priceless jewels. But in return she suffers a lack of privacy and the burden of being Queen 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 52 weeks a year for the rest of her life.

It has been said in the past that the Queen should abdicate for Prince Charles but technically speaking it is the monarch’s duty to rule until death in accordance with the time-honoured traditions and rules of succession. She can abdicate the throne only with the consent of the British Parliament and the parliament of the other nations (including Canada), which recognize her as their Head of State.

The closest she has ever come to admitting that her life was anything other than a life of duty, purpose and service to others was when she admitted that 1992 was not a year that she would look back upon with undiluted pleasure. This was all she had to say about a year that saw the separation of all three of her married children - the Prince and Princess of Wales, the Duke and Duchess of York and Princess Anne and Captain Mark Phil- lips. There was also the fire that caused irreparable damage to nine rooms at Windsor Castle, which she considers her residence, and many exploits by other members of the royal family that kept the tabloids very busy. She dubbed 1992 her “Annus Horribils”.

She is in her seventies now, an age when most people would be enjoying their retirement, yet she carries on her public duties and receives her red dispatch boxes every day of the year.


Heart to Heart with Hillary

Dear Hillary,

Does everybody have the problems I get when I go into a boys go-go bar? The men all seem to flock round me like bees around the honey pot and some of them are particularly suggestive. I must admit that the attention is great, much more than I get from my husband, for example, but I wonder how discreet are these places? After all, I know that my husband has had the odd “fling”, so why not me too? What do you say, Hillary?

Boy Bar Brenda

Dear Boy Bar Brenda,

I do not think you have to worry about the go-go bar being discreet, it is the other patrons you have to worry about. You are not paying for the worker’s company, you are paying for them to keep a secret, but the other patrons are a totally different matter! How many are from your husband’s workplace? Are you prepared to be found out? What will happen then? When you are actively deciding on “cheating” in the relationship, you should examine the motives. Are you doing this to get back at your husband for his “odd flings” - if so, this is a highly destructive form of behaviour. Just make sure it isn’t go-go and gone, Brenda.

Dear Hillary,

One of the girls in my office is getting married up country (she is Thai). We have been invited to the wedding and we are looking forward to seeing Thai people in their own natural surroundings, but we are very wary of inadvertently offending anyone as we do not know all the customs or what is acceptable or otherwise. We enjoy your column with its practical advice. Is there anything we should be particularly worried about?

Unsure

Dear Unsure,

Normal rules of etiquette and good manners are all that is expected of foreigners at an up-country wedding. Cavorting naked in the hotel pool is a no-no, as is flirting with the bride and/or groom. Enjoy the open-hearted way you will be welcomed by the local people and take plenty of photographs - everyone likes a record of their own. There is also a custom whereby money is pinned onto the couple. Make sure you have currency of a suitable denomination. 20 baht is not appropriate. But, relax, Petals, and enjoy upcountry hospitality.

Dear Hillary,

My stepson is coming to Thailand for his first visit. His mother and I separated and divorced a couple of years ago, and I have not had too much contact with her family members since then. He has asked to stay with me and my family are very much against it, saying that he will only make trouble for me. He is 32 years old and I have a live-in girlfriend who is 22 years old. It looks fairly bizarre from the outside looking in, but you know what the situation is in Thailand, don’t you, Hillary? I do not want to give the boy the idea that I am just an old lecher living in sin, but by the same token, why should I change a perfectly good arrangement just to save the sensibilities of the boy, or what he might think of me?

Confused

Dear Confused,

Hillary definitely believes that you have to live life for yourself, not for others. As you say, your arrangement works for you and I presume it also does for your girlfriend. What your stepson thinks of it does not really come into the equation. If he does not like it, then he can always find a hotel to stay in. By the way, at 32 years of age, I hardly consider the young man to be a “boy” so perhaps you are not letting your stepson “grow up” in your own mind. Let him come, show him the fun times in Pattaya and make sure he doesn’t steal your 22-year-old girlfriend!

Dear Hillary,

We have just had 5,000 American troops here for the annual Cobra Gold exercise, and while for the most part they all seemed clean-shaven, close cropped crew-cutted, polite young men, it amazes me that they can be so rude to many of our bar owners. A bar is a business where the owner sells alcohol. Some the Americans were bringing opened bottles of beer into the bar, beer which they had bought somewhere else. Surely they don’t do this in America, so why would they do it here?

Barfly

Dear Barfly,

I do agree with you that the visiting American servicemen all appear to be a well behaved bunch of boys, and the haircut certainly means you can spot them a mile off. I really think that they do not realise they could be seen as offending the bar owners. From what I have seen (not that Hillary hangs around bars, I might add) they come in with a bottle from bar A, finish it and then buy a bottle in Bar B, which they then take to bar C on their crawl around the watering holes. I do not believe it is a genuine attempt to defraud the bars as they move around.


A Slice of Thai History: The Revolution of 1688

by Duncan Stearn

Part Two: The rise of Constantine Phaulkon

After closing their factory in Ayutthaya in 1663 because of declining profits, the Dutch East India Company blockaded the mouth of the Chao Phraya River the following year and demanded to be given exclusive rights to trade in deer and cow hides.

On August 11 1664, King Narai signed an agreement with the Dutch that gave the latter the right to trade in Thailand free of restrictions but they were compelled to pay taxes. Thailand would refrain from employing Chinese nationals on Thai ships and the VOC gained the monopoly they sought for the trade in deer and cowhides.

The one point imposed by the Dutch on the Thais and greatly resented was the clause introducing extraterritoriality. Employees of the VOC who committed a serious crime in Thailand were to be handed over to the head of the Dutch East India Company, to be punished in accordance with Dutch law.

In 1675, 1678 or 1679 (depending on whose source you read), George White, an English merchant, introduced Constantine Phaulkon, a Greek adventurer who had been employed aboard English ships since he was a youth, to government officials in Ayutthaya.

Phaulkon, in some accounts he is also referred to as a Venetian although this appears doubtful, was appointed as George White’s trade representative. He had ability as a linguist and, apart from knowledge of a few European languages, he learned to speak Thai and Malay fairly quickly and was au fait with the intricate nature of trading with foreigners. These qualities saw him employed by the Royal Warehouse Department as an interpreter and his abilities soon won him royal recognition, King Narai conferring a Thai nobleman’s title, Chao Phraya Vichayen, upon him.

The English East India Company was not happy at having to deal with the Royal Warehouse Department, claiming it to be a state monopoly. Although technically correct, the company was desirous of maintaining its own trading monopoly, seeking to prevent private English traders from doing business with Thailand.

Even some company employees engaged in their own private trade while those Englishmen not connected with the company and engaged in trading with Thailand were called ‘interlopers’.

These interlopers included George White, the benefactor of Constantine Phaulkon, and his younger brother, Samuel White.

King Narai’s first diplomatic mission to France, dispatched in December 1680, was lost at sea off the coast of Madagascar. In 1682, the French East India Company sent a small commercial mission to Ayutthaya which was well received by the Thais.

On December 6 1682, the English East India Company factory in the city was mysteriously destroyed by fire. The English accused Phaulkon, the interloper, with complicity.

Earlier that year Phaulkon had switched from the Anglican faith to Roman Catholicism, an act viewed by the English as an attempt to curry favour with the increasingly influential French.

In reality, although Phaulkon was not on good terms with the English he tried to maintain a semblance of friendship by sending expensive gifts for George White to distribute in London, including a present for King James II.

The root of the difficulties and rift centred on private trade. Although Phaulkon was a Thai government official, charged with conducting trade in the name of the Treasury, he also engaged in his own private trade.


Bits ‘n’ Bobs

MAID IN THAILAND

The ingenuity of the Thai will never cease to amaze me. I have a heavy iron front gate, the runners of which I deliberately do not oil. The simple reason for this is that the noise made when opening the gate is clearly audible and acts as a back up to the alarm system. Following the recent heavy rains however, to open or close the gate required the services of an aggressive weightlifter or Sumo wrestler. I had a small bottle of oil that would do the job and planned to fix it the following day. By the time I had psyched myself up to perform this monumental task and invest five minutes of my life in the process, the maid had skipped off to her English lessons. I was irked, because I wanted to show her how for future reference. Duly armed with my bottle of oil, I squared up to the fence (having already limbered up by opening a can of Heineken one-handed), grabbed it with two hands and wrenched it open. The gate just took off and sped away, de-railing itself noiselessly, until it hit a garden chair. As I was getting it back on the runners, I espied the culprit and groaned - a 5-litre bottle of engine oil no doubt purchased by the maid with the change from yesterday’s shopping. Under interrogation, she confessed to having interfered with the gate but explained that the oil had cost nothing. She claimed that she had gone to a garage and coaxed one of the lads to fill up a bottle with drained sump oil for free. I let her off with a warning...

WORD OF THE WEEK

Incontinent (adj.) Where an Australian lives.

AQUARIUS

Sitting outside in the garden, the bottled water truck pulled up, my two empty flagons on display having caught their attention. As I opened the gate (gently), down jumped a rather tall, fit-looking young lady. Rather than just shuffle the new bottles in and let me hump them into the house, she asked me where I wanted them. Given that it takes me five minutes to lug one bottle to the kitchen and then have a lay down, I was more than happy to let this Earth Mother tote them for me. She picked the brace up and proceeded to carry them by the neck with her arms outstretched in the manner I carry the empty ones. They contain 20 litres of water each, which I believe equates to 20 kgs. I can hardly wrestle with one of them for more than ten paces yet she traversed the thirty-yard distance with the pair, chatting as she walked. She was definitely a lady of the 1st category, but I did wonder if her husband wears a dress...

KARMA CAMILLIAN

Yes, I am making a weak pun on Culture Club’s hit, but I am actually referring to the Camillian Social Center at Rayong. The CSC is a facility run by Father Giovanni Contarin to care for orphaned children infected and affected by HIV/AIDS. The common ground the kids have is that their parent(s) died because of HIV/AIDS and had the virus passed down to them from birth. If you have not heard of this very worthy cause that strives to enrich and extend the lives of little kids dealt a cruel hand in life, take a moment to go to http://www.bahtbus.com/csc.index on the Internet. There are some touching stories for you to read and some lovely photos of the kids at the Center. There is also a convenient way to make a donation, should you wish. For more information, please e-mail me.

ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE

I just had to mention something about the Queen of England’s Golden Jubilee celebrations. She is as old as my Mum, bless her and I love them both! To view the celebrations (on Sophon Cable) along the Mall and at Buckingham Palace was a delight indeed. To see so many people of different ages, colour, cultures, creeds et al having a whale of a time as they danced, cheered and celebrated together with a common purpose was truly outstanding and says much for the harmony of global society today. I look forward to Her Majesty’s Diamond Jubilee in ten years time.


Animal Crackers: Bear Wisdom

By Mirin E Mc Carthy

Connection with all creatures

This story was told by Makwa of Cree Canadian Indian/Irish descent, an elder of the Ojibwe people of Sault Sainte Marie. This is the first publication in written form. It was a sharing of stories between relatives and is a true teaching, which Makwa is happy to share with others as, “teachings are meant to be that way.”

“Respect and understanding for bears”

“One day, a father and son went hunting on a Northern Reserve, looking for moose and partridge for their coming ceremonial feast. As they walked through the bush, the father shared Anishnabie teaching with his son, of where to walk, what to look for while hunting and showed his son the need to be connected with all around him. The father shared with his son that we are all connected to all the wonderful living things that had been given to all peoples.

As they walked further into the bush, the father suddenly stopped and told the son to be quiet and stand still. Suddenly, a mother bear and her three cubs appeared on the path in front of them. The son became excited and told his father to shoot the bears but the father turned to him and said, “Why would we shoot the bears? We don’t need the meat and the young ones are out with their mother being taught in the ways of the bears, they mean us no harm”.

The Father then looked into his son’s eyes and told him that he was going to approach the mother bear and talk with her, in a good and simple way. As the son watched, the father walked towards the bear in a non-threatening way, speaking in his own Indian language in soft tones. The mother bear sat on her haunches and listened to the man, all the while, grunting in response as the man spoke in the musical language of the Ojibwe people.

The father finished his talk with the mother bear and walked back to his son and told him that he had spoken with mother bear and shared with her that he was teaching his cub, just as she was teaching her cubs and that they meant no harm to them. He told his son that they would walk in a wide circle away from the bears and that they would do likewise.

As the father and son continued their walk, the son understood then that he was indeed connected to all living things around him and he was not separate from the circle of life but is part of it. He realized also that humans and the four legged could still talk with each other and understand each other.

The most important lesson he learned that day was that it was wrong to needlessly take a four legged’s life just for the sake of taking it when they were not hunting for bear. He learned to respect all life that day and was taught the simple Anishabie way of communicating with bears.” Makwa.

Walk in a wide circle

It is important to remember if encountering bears in the wild whether in Asia, America or Europe to treat them with a healthy respect and “walk away in a wide circle.” Do not be tempted to approach bears or other wild animals including elephants, to try your skill at talking with them, as only gifted native people who truly know the ways of animals can do this with impunity. A pride of lions on the veldt in Africa will allow a solitary African to pass close by without harm and so will a leopard in a tree, but they will kill hunters.

Nothing substitutes for really living with and understanding the ways of wild animals in communicating with them. It is not enough to rely on Divine providence or blessing of the Lord Buddha as sole protection in approaching wild creatures. Respect and understanding is all.


Personal Directions: Letting Go

by Christina Dodd, founder and managing director 
of Incorp Training Associates

I had a wonderful opportunity 2 weeks ago to work with a very vibrant group of managers from a leading insurance firm in Thailand - so vibrant were they that their enthusiasm is still ringing loud in the corridors of their respective offices. It’s times like these that bring the greatest rewards to any trainer - when the penny has finally dropped and the message of the training is loud and clear!

Sometimes - well more than just sometimes - training can be rather boring and quite honestly simply misses the point. With this group - as indeed with all the groups I work with in my training programs - instruction is enjoyable and informative, getting down to the basics to address fundamental behavioural issues before we begin to build. There’s no point in bringing all these executives together just to have a good lunch and chat over copious amounts of coffee and sticky cakes, is there!

And no matter how senior managers are or how “executive” they appear to be, I have always found that they all share a similar problem when it comes to the subject of goals, be they personal, professional, company or whatever. That is their inability to pursue their goals to the fullest because they can’t put the experiences of their past behind them. We all carry around huge trunks of negative emotions and conditioning, failure, fear and the like, and these trunks - so to speak - are so heavy that in our struggle to keep holding on to them, we have no way to hold on to or grasp anything new. It’s rather like having a cumbersome and heavy suitcase in each hand and being confronted with having to walk up a flight of stairs but you have no way of doing it - not unless you offload some heavy baggage!

When I was growing up I often heard teachers and parents exclaim to their students or children how stupid they were for not being able to do something! When this is compounded over time, the effect is a lasting imprint in the mind of the child - so much so that the child carries the experience with them into their adult life with disastrous results. We all carry some scars from the past, but unless we acknowledge that there is absolutely nothing gained by dwelling on them or even living with them day after day - as some people tend to do - then we just won’t be able to get on with life. “Letting go” is so integral to moving forward. It doesn’t mean you should forget the past and all its experiences - that’s impossible - but it simply means to put the past aside, realize there is nothing - nothing - to be gained from living it! If you don’t let it go - it will hold you back. Nothing is more certain!

So, let me ask the question - are you living your life immersed in the past, or are you living your life looking toward the future? Which is it?

It takes some inner searching and perhaps reflection to understand this fully, but it seems that most people do understand it only too well. The difficulty is that most people just don’t want to or don’t know how to let go. But if you’ve ever seen the changes in a person once this has happened - they are extraordinary! Life is suddenly rich with ideas, challenges and hope. Things to do, places to go, people to meet! A sense of purpose becomes overwhelming and the subsequent inspiration and enthusiasm - zest for life - brings out the incredible abilities from within. Goals become achievable and the sky is truly the limit!

Which way are you headed? The past or the future?

For more insights... catch me next week.

Christina can be contacted by email at christina.dodd@ incorptraining.com or direct- ly at Incorp Training Associates in Bangkok - tel. (02) 6521867-8 or fax: (02) 652 1870.


Social Commentary by Khai Khem

Why good men can’t meet nice girls - in Pattaya?

If I had ten baht for every time I heard a perfectly lovely gentleman, young or old, ask this question through the years, I would probably not be working as a newspaper hack. Depending on who does the asking and how off-guard they have caught me, I will now admit to having responded in a typical Thai way; vague, polite, and never, NEVER really giving a straight answer. I think the time has come to come clean. In print.

Let’s call a spade a spade straight away and clear the air for more honest comments. Pattaya does not have the ‘nicest’ reputation throughout the world. We seem to be notorious for promoting a very sleazy and undisciplined way of life which the so-called respectable layers of social society, both at home and abroad, hold in total contempt.

This reputation is not undeserved. The problem with our image is that what others perceive us to be is not the whole picture, but only a part of what makes our city tick. Those of us who live here permanently and those who visit frequently know for a fact that our seaside tourist resort is also a complete community with many facets.

Every city of a similar size and diversity has innumerable components which if scrutinized from only one point of view does not create a clear picture. The Big Picture needs to be viewed with a wider lens. True, there are those who see Pattaya for the multi-faceted, multi-cultural town that it is. And we are grateful for this open-minded approach. These are the individuals and groups who will make a real difference in the future of our city.

But of course life is not just a series of good deeds and community service. Pattaya seems to attract a lot of very sincere men of all ages who are looking for lasting relationships and seem to think that our town is full of women (or men) who will supply them with the emotional connection they are searching for. The plain truth is that this search is the equivalent of walking through a minefield; unprepared and unaware that at any moment, in any given situation, the whole situation can explode like a land mine, with approximately the same tragic consequences.

Most male newcomers to Pattaya head straight for the bars or nightclubs. Why? Because that is where they will most easily meet the local ladies. This is what I call the Path of Least Resistance. In fact, there is NO resistance. That’s part of the scene. These women work in an environment where it is their job to flirt and play with total strangers. For them it is a simple business transaction.

The men, on the other hand, often take these encounters seriously and plan whole scenarios that foresee them rescuing the bar girls from a life of hardship and ambiguity. Some liaisons last months, even years. Most don’t make it past the mark after the man hands over a huge payment of cash, a house or a kilo of gold jewelry. When the money is either gone, or seriously depleted and the gentleman finds out that no matter how much he gives, how many problems he has solved for his lover and her family, how generous and understanding he has been in every situation, it will never be enough, and he feels shocked and betrayed. Now he finally gets the picture and may very well be cured. So where does he go from here?

By this stage he is probably ready to meet one of the many truly nice women who live in this country. After all, Thailand has a population of about 70 million people and a large portion of them are eligible and respectable ladies. Here’s the rub. The terrible truth is that once a woman finds out a single foreign man has been in Thailand for more than one week, and that week was spent in Pattaya, he’s pretty much ‘done for’ in her eyes. Bite down, boys! Here is the plain unvarnished truth. What lady is going to get involved with a man who’s been trawling the South Pattaya brothels? Which respectable woman is going to take a chance with a man who’s been partying in Pattaya?

We’re talking about a number of negative factors here. The most dangerous one is disease. Everyone is so focused on AIDS they seem to have forgotten there is a long list of other sexually transmitted diseases including syphilis which if caught early and treated still takes about a year to cure. If it is not diagnosed quickly, second stage syphilis can continue for a lifetime. It can also be passed on to a fetus. I won’t list the entire spectrum of other horrors which sexually irresponsible people pass on to each other. I think readers are getting the point.

Even if the man escapes a dreaded sexual disease, there is still the question of character and behavior. I know a number of men who think that Thai women are generally “mentally out to lunch” and don’t care ‘two hoots’ about anything Westerners take seriously. Big mistake. Thai women keep their mouths shut and eyes open. They are acute judges of character. If anyone is competent to spot a drifter, a loser, or a man who is on a path to destruction, a Thai woman is just as likely to spot a walking disaster as anyone.

Even a bar girl can spot a loser. That’s just the one she hits the hardest. Thai women from other sections of society are reluctant to get involved with these foreign men because they are aware there is no future for them with these ‘passing’ personalities. There seems to be a natural law which is as pertinent in Pattaya as elsewhere. People tend to ascend or sink to their own level. All else is wishful thinking.


Roll over Rover: More tips on stationing

by C. Schloemer

Once you’ve mastered the stationing technique, and have created station spots inside your home you’ll find this training method is invaluable once you and your dog are outside. For example, if you’re into gardening or you have kids who like to shoot hoops in the driveway you can plan nearby stations. When you take your dog in the car it’s safest to confine him while you’re driving. It protects him like a seatbelt protects you.

Driving is a job in itself. Avoid being preoccupied with your dog while doing it since it’s a safety hazard for both of you. Letting your dog ride in your lap or hang halfway out the window may be fun for both of you, but your dog is too precious to lose in an accident. Confine your dog while driving. There are car gates, crates, harness belts and the Car Lead! The handle of the Car Lead fastens to a seat belt. It can be left in the car permanently.

You can create a station for your dog in the car. Decorate it with a toy and a blanket if you like. Bring the dog to the car and give him your command for stationing. Hook the dog on the buckle collar (not a training collar) and ignore all initial protests. Praise him when he’s calm. The Car Lead is quick and easy to use and your dog will feel more secure and calm knowing his place.

Decorate stations. Create a familiar theme at each station. Similar bedding and chew bones will help your dog learn faster. Showing your dog his station is important. The first time you secure your dog, hang around. Sit down and scratch his ears. Offer a bone or chew toy. When he’s content, say “Wait,” as you walk away for no more than 15 seconds.

If you come back to a hyper dog, ignore him until he settles down. Pet a calm dog and you get a calm dog. Increase your departures steadily. He may fuss a bit, but those preliminary steps will ensure him of your return. Always secure your dog near you. Give him just enough room to lie comfortably (about 3 feet). Given too much leeway, dogs may pace, bark or worse - eliminate.

Give your dog attention

The unsupervised dog often gets attention for being unruly. Poor thing; he can’t help himself. On the other hand, a stationed dog doesn’t have a lot of room to act up. He may bark or whine, but if you ignore it he eventually stops. He may roll around and act goofy, but you can ignore that as well. Stationing encourages good behavior. So whenever your dog lies down to rest or chew, you can reinforce that GOOD behavior with attention.

Give your dog a break

The amount of time you can station a dog depends on you and your dog. Age and temperament are important factors. Add time of day and weather to the equation. Puppies under 12 weeks can have stations. They just cannot be attached to them very long. Use your common sense. Young dogs need breaks more than older ones do. Rainy days usually mean less exercise making it tough for active dogs to sit still for too long.

What if your dog won’t stop barking?

Close your ears and wait it out. Get a squirt gun and surprise him with a squirt of water. Say, “Shhhhh.” Don’t let him know where the water is coming from or he’ll think it’s a game. No eye contact. Look disappointed as you lead him from the station and ignore him for 15 minutes and try again.

What if your dog chews his Teaching Lead?

In this case, avoid using the Teaching Lead to station him until he’s learned better manners. Nylon leashes or ropes soaked in ground chilies or Tabasco sauce won’t taste as yummy. If all fails get a chain lead to station him temporarily until he gives up the idea.

Must you leash your dog forever?

Of course not! Some dogs catch on to the “settle down” command so quickly they’re eagerly participating by the end of the second week. Others take longer, so have patience and don’t give up. Whether it takes weeks or months, once your dog learns this little trick, it lasts a lifetime. Some dogs will be very cooperative right from the beginning when no one is around, but when friends drop in, all the training goes out the window. Owners often find that ‘lead time’ needs to be re-introduced from time to time; a refresher course, so to speak.


The Message In The Moon: Sun in Virgo-Moon in Taurus

by Anchalee Kaewmanee

Old Faithful

This is perhaps the best-rounded of all the Virgo combinations. These individuals are calm, patient and determined. A model of good character, resolve and pragmatism, there is very little that this Sun-Moon sign cannot accomplish in life. The nature of members of this group is responsible, sincere and reliable. Their values are old fashioned and firmly rooted. For them, the old way is often the best way. Other people often turn to them for advice because they sense a worldly wisdom and realize that any council proffered will always be reasonable and well thought out. Both Sun and Moon are earth signs so there is little conflict between the outward personality and the inner emotional self.

The Taurus Moon gives warmth to the Virgo’s rather cool and undemonstrative Sun. It also lends a youthful vigor to this combination. Intelligent, healthy and endowed with great stamina, natives are usually well-balanced in mind and body. There is a wholesomeness here that is much admired by others. Most are solid citizens in the literal sense and exude a quiet self-confidence without flash or flamboyance.

They may not be as jolly or entertaining as some combinations. Honesty and integrity are more important to them than grabbing center stage. Like all people who inwardly value themselves and have confidence in their abilities, they go about their lives without much ado, usually achieving whatever goals they set for themselves. They do tend to be a little smug and are occasionally a tad judgmental.

Of course no one is perfect. These natives try to appear stern, tough and exacting. But behind that gruff exterior lies a very soft heart. Unfortunately the great sensitivity of these individuals is perceived as a weakness, and they continually try to hide it behind a callous exterior. Lucky for them, most people see through this disguise.

Dedication, industriousness and sincerity all combine to make the Virgo- Taurus a role model for others to emulate. The only thing this combination should be careful of is the tendency to become a little lazy.

This sign is a harmonious combination so there will be few obstacles in life for natives. Thus, despite all of their resourcefulness and built-in work ethic, they often run the risk of slipping into complacency.

What we have here is a
conservative nature which tends to resist any change or innovation. This Sun-Moon combo really needs to keep an open mind to changing lifestyles and new ideas. There is always something to be gained from new experiences, so taking a risk now and again will open new doors of opportunity. In social life it is a good idea to broaden vistas and friendships. These natives often play it safe here too, thus tend to associate with others who are similar to themselves and miss out on the interaction of people with different ideas and lifestyles and a chance to expand their horizons. Travel is often an excellent tonic for the cautious Virgo-Taurus who has slipped into a social rut.

Professionally, this combination is ideally suited for business and financial endeavors. Long-term projects that
require patience and a
practical approach are recommended. The keen intellect and incredibly logical thinking process of the Virgo Sun sign allows success in technical fields such as engineering. Fine organizational skills make business management and administration obvious career choices. Anything which requires precision planning, such as financial advice, the stock market or any kind of money management is a ‘piece of cake’ for these natives.

In love, the Virgo-Taurus is a consistent and reliable partner and will search for matching qualities in a lover. The comfort and stability of home life is important for overall happiness and security. These natives make fine parents and loving spouses. Most prefer big families and their homes will be filled with lots of noisy, active children.

Virgos can often be aloof and withdrawn with people they don’t know very well. But the Taurus Moon assures friends, good food and fine hospitality will always be a part of domestic life. Loyalty and convivial bliss with this combination is assured if a partner is chosen wisely. However, many natives do wait until they are older to marry. Their slight timidity with the opposite sex requires a long engagement to make sure they are not making a mistake. Once they are married, however, it’s usually for keeps.


PC Basics: What’s lurking on your PC?

Bay Computer Services

Had an email from your Internet Provider about the W32/Klez virus? This is one of a new generation of destructive programs that are capable of doing some very nasty things on your PC. It spreads itself by going through your address book in Outlook Express and mailing itself to your contacts. It can also attach a file to the outgoing email that it chooses at random from your computer. So it could well be emailing your bank account details, password lists or anything else you may have on your PC.

As it is a worm virus, even going through the procedure of clearing it from your computer may not actually get rid of it. It lurks in your system and re-emerges later to violate your computer again. But it gets worse. Unless you have a special patch program for Outlook Express, once you have received an email containing the Klez virus, it runs itself automatically. You don’t have to look at the attachments on the mail for it to start spreading itself through your system. Some Internet Cafes will not have Outlook Express on their systems for this very reason.

Perhaps you have anti-virus software on your PC and you think you are safe from this. Unfortunately, W32/Klez is capable of disabling your anti-virus software, so you may never know that you have been infected with it.

Viruses are the scourges of computer users around the world. The malicious authors of virus programs must have a bizarre sense of fun. Besides getting a virus from an email or from an infected program, there is another type of virus called a script virus. These bury themselves in HTML language, which describes how a Web page is viewed on your PC. This means that you can get a virus just by surfing the Internet.

There are a number of effective anti-virus programs and two of the most well known and equally effective are from Norton and McAfee. If you are using the Internet or software from a questionable source then one of these anti-virus programs should be installed on your computer.

You should also consider installing a firewall program, which will guard against other harmful software which can allow another person complete access to your PC via a program called a Trojan. Again you have a wide choice and everyone has his or her favourite. Norton Antivirus 2002 for XP/XP Pro/2000 Pro NT/ NT Win Me and 98 costs just over 2000 baht and can then be updated to deal with new viruses. Norton Personal Firewall 2002 for the same operating systems is the same price. Other anti-virus programs would be about the same price.

But to be certain that you are well protected, you must ensure that your program is up to date. Anti-virus software is normally self-updating over the internet, and as long as you are updating the program every couple of weeks, and are running a full scan every month, then you will be as secure as possible.

If you have any PC related questions please send them to e-mail: [email protected]


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